Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Catchphrase that convicts overanxious mothers

Parental Alienation is the current scam of the times in family court. A similar fraud occurs when mothers are falsely accused of Munchausen’s syndrome by proxy. This article originally published in November of 2006 in the Times Online of the UK illustrates how accusing a mother of a syndrome with a fancy sounding name can be so devastating. Just like with the parental alienation fraud, no evidence is needed, just an unethical mental health professional making the pronouncement is enough to cost a mother her children. Generally in family court, these false accusations of fictitious syndromes are used to facilitate a fraudulent custody change. The world need to be aware of the unethical people working in the mental health professions who use these made up names to take children away from fit parents to give to abusive ones who generally pay large amounts of money to pull off this custody scam in collusion with lawyers, GALs, mediators, and other bottomfeeders.

Originally posted November 7, 2006

Catchphrase that convicts overanxious mothers
By John Batt
Parents are being destroyed by a syndrome that does not existTHE presumption of innocence is a cornerstone of the rule of law. You cannot be convicted without trial. Or can you?A denial can never be a confession, can it? Without a trial you can’t be dragged from your home before dawn, in 21st-century Britain, never to be seen again — or can you?

Munchausen’s syndrome by proxy (MSbP, but now called fabricated or induced illness) is diagnosed when an adult — usually the mother — fabricates symptoms of sickness in a child to draw attention to herself. One can imagine a woman with mental problems doing it, but the idea that thousands of mothers are at it is surely barking mad. In America 1,200 cases are officially recorded every year. If it is a proper diagnosis why is it not listed in the World Health Organisation’s international statistical classification of diseases and related health problems?

Munchausen’s began life in 1951 as a catchphrase for an overanxious mother, phantom-suffering her child’s pain. In 1977 a clever paediatrician, Dr — now Professor Sir Roy — Meadow mutated it to describe two healthy children whose mothers had fabricated their illnesses. It made his name. He thought it rare. It provoked controversy, not least because a mother’s denial was proof of MSbP. Two questions demanded answers: what exactly was it and how prevalent? The Government’s Griffiths inquiry recommended “an expert and multidisciplinary panel to review methods of identification”. A working party with only two doctors on it, neither a paediatrician, focused not on identification, but on how to translate suspicion of it into proof. Confirmation duly came to pass. The guidelines of the working party were validated.

Since then, hundreds have claimed irreparable damage to their families by false allegations of MSbP For years the incidence of violent abuse of children has fallen consistently; by more than 50 per cent since 1996. Yet in response to just one case — the horrifying killing of Victoria Climbié, who was let down by social and medical services — the Government is creating the Children’s Index containing explicit details of every child from every source. Such a pharmacy of intimate information could provide many more MSbP prescriptions with tragic outcomes.

Any of the following may put a mother in the MSbP “frame”: if the doctor can find nothing wrong with the child; if tests are negative; if mum demands other opinions; if she has an “unhealthy” interest in things medical; if she exaggerates the child’s condition; and, of course, if she denies making it all up. For the health service, MSbP is a cheap solution to difficult cases. Some doctors call it a sexy diagnosis.

In Medical Hypotheses, a respected American journal, Dr Virginia Sherr reports many cases of Lyme disease — notoriously difficult to diagnose — treated as MSbP, with, sometimes, fatal consequences for the child. In the BMJ, Charles Pragnell, a former social worker, cites many stigmatised parents refusing to seek treatment for their sick children for fear of child abuse allegations; one doctor diagnosed MSbP 258 times.

The medical establishment justifies MSbP because many mothers have confessed to it. Would any innocent mother say that she had abused her child when she hadn’t? Commonly, a social worker, psychologist or paediatrician will say: “If you deny it you will never see Sandra again; if you admit it, you will keep her and receive treatment for your condition.” Mother and her partner may agonise but the loss of their daughter is unthinkable. So “Sandra’s” mum “confesses”. And that probably guarantees that they will never be a family again. And the “confession” goes into the statistics; another “joker” in the MSbP house of cards.

Accused, a BBC Two documentary, told the shocking story of a mob-handed, dawn raid in the Scottish island of South Ronaldsay, in 1988, when nine terrified children were forcibly torn from their parents on a social services’ fantasy that they had been subjected to ritual satanic abuse. A family court judge quickly rubbished the “prosecution” and sent the children home. The social workers involved are, 17 years later, unrepentant, convinced that the denials — by all the children and their parents — prove the abuse took place. Welcome to the witches’ drowning pool.

What should be done? The Children’s Index should be scrapped. Such a police state measure could multiply miscarriages of justice. Judges should throw out expert evidence based on MSbP, citing the judgment of the Queensland (Australia) Court of Appeal, in 2004, that “it does not form part of a recognised reliable body of medical knowledge”. The medical establishment should tell all doctors that MSbP is not a medical condition. When a doctor or social worker is convinced that a mother is pretending that her child is ill when it is not, she should be charged with child abuse in a court of law. If the evidence warrants it she will be “convicted” and any children considered for a care order. If the evidence is not there, the mother is presumed innocent.

The author is a solicitor and writer. Stolen Innocence, his story of Sally Clark, is published by Ebury Press

3 comments:

Barb said...

You are so full of crap - you can't even stand to be opposed. You are a coward that can't stand to have opposing views on your site. The truth about Parental Alienation is more than you can handle probably because you are an alienator yourself. Shame on you. Wake up - do what's in the best interest of the children. They deserve both parent! Not just one selfish parent intent on maliciously controling someone. Beware Parental Alienation will come back and bite you in the butt and you will end up a very lonely bitter old woman.

farising said...

I would have to agree with Barb's comment, that it is very likely that this sites creator is an alienator...

let’s assume for a moment that the creators of this site are wrongfully accused of being alienators. This is unfortunate if it is true...

However, it is not fair or logical that just because some individuals have decided to use Parental alienation as a weapon against the other parent. This does not indicate that Parental alienation does not exist and that the parental alienation awareness movement should be abolished.

It also appears that you have confused Parental alienation syndrome and the "act of parental alienation itself. You keep referring to the fact that PAS is not a recognized syndrome and so that justifies why parental alienation awareness day must be outlawed.

It is unfortunate that you did not research the PA awareness movement prior to creating this site. If you had you would have discovered that PA awareness day promotes awareness of the act and behaviors of the parents and family members who alienate children.

Saying Parental alienation does not exist is like saying bulling does not exist.

Bottom line Parental alienation happens all over the world and children are the ones that pay the price.

I was quite disappointed when I discovered this site, as I believe that Parental alienation awareness day is a worthy movement that helps to educate the public and is in the best interest of the true victims of PA the children!

The purpose of your site I fear will only serve the alienators and help to keep the general public in the dark ages about how these behaviors hurt children.

Regardless of whether or not you have been falsely accused of the act of alienating, shame on you for being so selfish as to promote against a very worthy cause.....

Unknown said...

I appreciate this web page for getting the TRUTH out there! I have been falsely accused of this shit. and guess what it was actually my Ex always speaking negatively about me to our daughter but she was never alienated from me because she has a brain in her head. A child can not so easily be brainwashed into not loving a parent no matter what is said. A child only refuses a relationship with a parent because that parent has in fact been abusive in some way. Children aren't stupid ~ don't you remember being one?? and NO I don't think you need both parents to succeed in life. If one is abusive, the non abuser will be just fine.