Leadership Council on Child Abuse and Interpersonal Violence (LC), more than 58,000 children a year are ordered into unsupervised contact with physically or sexually abusive parents following divorce in the United States.
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In battles for custody, children often pawns
Two psychologists claimed that this man was not a danger to his children. The mother's credibility was questioned and she was not listened to.
This blogger does NOT agree with David L. Levy, more professionals and more facilities are not needed as they cannot judge things accurately anyway. Mothers need to be listened to in court. No one likes to be in court and the myths of false allegations is a load of crap. These fatalities are an epidemic because mothers and children are not being protected. In these situations, sole custody and protection are the answer, not years of re-victimization in court.
Experts say case of death of three youths exhibits familiar patterns
by Agnes Jasinski Staff Writer
As police and the courts attempt to determine whether anything could have been done to prevent Mark Castillo from allegedly drowning his three young children in a Baltimore hotel bathtub a little more than a week ago, child and domestic violence experts disagree on where blame, if any, falls in the tragedy.
‘‘We know many victims are frustrated, and feel they’re not being heard. ... People didn’t listen to this woman,” said Michaele Cohen, the executive director of the Maryland Network Against Domestic Abuse.
Castillo, 41, of Rockville was charged with three counts of first-degree murder and a series of first-degree child abuse and assault charges in the March 29 deaths of his children Anthony, 6, Austin, 4, and Athena, 2. His preliminary hearing in Baltimore is set for April 29.
The children, who lived with their mother, Amy Castillo, in Silver Spring, were victims of a lengthy custody battle that some say showed patterns of behavior found in domestic violence cases.
‘‘Power and control are the issues in domestic violence. ... In this case, [Mark Castillo] did say ... that if he just kills the children and not her, it would be harder on her,” said Hannah Sassoon, the county’s domestic violence coordinator with the sheriff’s office, referring to a protective order petition filed in court by Amy Castillo. The sheriff’s office serves protective orders.
‘‘When people leave a relationship, the children become another way to control the partner,” Sassoon said.
A fatality review team of social workers and representatives from police and the courts is looking at whether the incident was foreseeable, Sassoon said. The process is standard in cases in which children or adults who are the victims of domestic violence are killed.
The Montgomery County team, chaired by Laura Chase, also supervisor of the Family Violence Unit in the county state’s attorney’s office, has reviewed eight cases dating back to 2000 since its inception about a year ago. The group meets monthly to look at whether there were any gaps in response, Chase said, and to work out ways of keeping victims of domestic violence ‘‘from ultimately becoming another statistic.”
Chase said she did not know how long a review of the Castillo case would take.
Lt. Paul Starks, a spokesman for Montgomery County Police, said the department was acting ‘‘beyond our own protocol” when officers visited Mark Castillo’s home after Amy Castillo called police to report her husband was late in returning the children after his scheduled visitation. Starks said the officer who responded was new and also contacted his sergeant. ‘‘He wanted to make sure he was doing everything he should.”
Police are limited to enforcing orders from the court, Starks said, and children may be kept up to 48 hours past visitation times before parents are fined or found to be in contempt of court.
‘‘They were allowed to be with him that day. ... Two hours late, it’s hard for us to write a missing person’s report,” Starks said. ‘‘But [Amy Castillo] knew a lot more than the police did. ... As it turns out, she was absolutely right in being concerned.”
The value, flaws of protective orders
Amy Castillo was given a temporary protective order against her husband in December 2006. In that petition, she wrote that Mark Castillo had threatened that ‘‘the worst thing he could do to me would be to kill the children and not me, so I could live without them.”
But her request for a permanent order, which would have been valid for up to a year, was rejected Jan. 10, 2007, by Montgomery County Circuit Court Judge Joseph A. Dugan Jr., who according to court documents cited a lack of evidence of abuses alleged by Amy Castillo. Such orders, specific to each case, can forbid the person charged with abuse from contacting victims or visiting their home or work.
First-time violators of protective orders are given up to 90 days in jail, fined $1,000, or both, Chase said. The state’s attorney’s office has two legal assistants who work primarily on cases involving protective order violations, she said.
Judges who issue protective orders must be prepared to defend that action with evidence of an imminent fear of abuse, often measured by prior physical abuse, said retired Prince George’s County Circuit Court Judge Vincent Femia, who still serves part-time.
In the Castillo case, Dugan’s decision was weighted heavily on findings by social workers and psychologists that Mark Castillo was not a threat to his children, despite his wife’s claims. Psychotherapist Mark Hirschfeld evaluated Mark Castillo in June 2007, and agreed with a report by psychologist C. David Missar earlier that year that Mark Castillo posed no threat to his children, court papers say. Mark Castillo had received visitation rights following the couple’s divorce in February.
Femia said every judge has been in a situation in which facts presented are insufficient to rule on the side of the petitioner. ‘‘The truth of the matter is, even if we give you a protective order, it’s a piece of paper,” Femia said.
Thomas DeGonia, a former county assistant state’s attorney who now works for Washington, D.C.-based Venable Law Firm, said cases without ‘‘independent evidence to corroborate,” such as witnesses, make judges’ decisions even more difficult.
Cohen of the Maryland Network Against Domestic Abuse said legislation that would lower the standard for proving an ‘‘imminent threat” in the issuance of the orders would make them more effective. But the argument that they did little to dissuade domestic violence is inappropriate, she said.
‘‘Nothing is a guarantee, no matter what you do,” she said.
Steps toward prevention
David L. Levy, the chief executive of the Children’s Rights Council, a Landover-based nonprofit that works to assure continuing contact between children and both parents in divorces, said in cases of alleged abuse, centers providing supervised visitation can ease some of the tension in custody battles.
Such centers currently operate in Clinton and Hyattsville, both run by the Children’s Rights Council, and in Kensington, run by the county’s Family Trauma Services. Judges must order supervised visitation, Levy said.
Cohen said taking all threats more seriously, both through legislation and court action, is important.
‘‘We’d like to see more training of the judges, the core personnel and the evaluators to look for the subtleties, and to recognize power and control, which is what this is all about,” she said. ‘‘Abusers can be very calculating, charming, likeable. ... It’s not always recognized as domestic violence by anybody.”
This blogger does NOT agree with David L. Levy, more professionals and more facilities are not needed as they cannot judge things accurately anyway. Mothers need to be listened to in court. No one likes to be in court and the myths of false allegations is a load of crap. These fatalities are an epidemic because mothers and children are not being protected. In these situations, sole custody and protection are the answer, not years of re-victimization in court.
Experts say case of death of three youths exhibits familiar patterns
by Agnes Jasinski Staff Writer
As police and the courts attempt to determine whether anything could have been done to prevent Mark Castillo from allegedly drowning his three young children in a Baltimore hotel bathtub a little more than a week ago, child and domestic violence experts disagree on where blame, if any, falls in the tragedy.
‘‘We know many victims are frustrated, and feel they’re not being heard. ... People didn’t listen to this woman,” said Michaele Cohen, the executive director of the Maryland Network Against Domestic Abuse.
Castillo, 41, of Rockville was charged with three counts of first-degree murder and a series of first-degree child abuse and assault charges in the March 29 deaths of his children Anthony, 6, Austin, 4, and Athena, 2. His preliminary hearing in Baltimore is set for April 29.
The children, who lived with their mother, Amy Castillo, in Silver Spring, were victims of a lengthy custody battle that some say showed patterns of behavior found in domestic violence cases.
‘‘Power and control are the issues in domestic violence. ... In this case, [Mark Castillo] did say ... that if he just kills the children and not her, it would be harder on her,” said Hannah Sassoon, the county’s domestic violence coordinator with the sheriff’s office, referring to a protective order petition filed in court by Amy Castillo. The sheriff’s office serves protective orders.
‘‘When people leave a relationship, the children become another way to control the partner,” Sassoon said.
A fatality review team of social workers and representatives from police and the courts is looking at whether the incident was foreseeable, Sassoon said. The process is standard in cases in which children or adults who are the victims of domestic violence are killed.
The Montgomery County team, chaired by Laura Chase, also supervisor of the Family Violence Unit in the county state’s attorney’s office, has reviewed eight cases dating back to 2000 since its inception about a year ago. The group meets monthly to look at whether there were any gaps in response, Chase said, and to work out ways of keeping victims of domestic violence ‘‘from ultimately becoming another statistic.”
Chase said she did not know how long a review of the Castillo case would take.
Lt. Paul Starks, a spokesman for Montgomery County Police, said the department was acting ‘‘beyond our own protocol” when officers visited Mark Castillo’s home after Amy Castillo called police to report her husband was late in returning the children after his scheduled visitation. Starks said the officer who responded was new and also contacted his sergeant. ‘‘He wanted to make sure he was doing everything he should.”
Police are limited to enforcing orders from the court, Starks said, and children may be kept up to 48 hours past visitation times before parents are fined or found to be in contempt of court.
‘‘They were allowed to be with him that day. ... Two hours late, it’s hard for us to write a missing person’s report,” Starks said. ‘‘But [Amy Castillo] knew a lot more than the police did. ... As it turns out, she was absolutely right in being concerned.”
The value, flaws of protective orders
Amy Castillo was given a temporary protective order against her husband in December 2006. In that petition, she wrote that Mark Castillo had threatened that ‘‘the worst thing he could do to me would be to kill the children and not me, so I could live without them.”
But her request for a permanent order, which would have been valid for up to a year, was rejected Jan. 10, 2007, by Montgomery County Circuit Court Judge Joseph A. Dugan Jr., who according to court documents cited a lack of evidence of abuses alleged by Amy Castillo. Such orders, specific to each case, can forbid the person charged with abuse from contacting victims or visiting their home or work.
First-time violators of protective orders are given up to 90 days in jail, fined $1,000, or both, Chase said. The state’s attorney’s office has two legal assistants who work primarily on cases involving protective order violations, she said.
Judges who issue protective orders must be prepared to defend that action with evidence of an imminent fear of abuse, often measured by prior physical abuse, said retired Prince George’s County Circuit Court Judge Vincent Femia, who still serves part-time.
In the Castillo case, Dugan’s decision was weighted heavily on findings by social workers and psychologists that Mark Castillo was not a threat to his children, despite his wife’s claims. Psychotherapist Mark Hirschfeld evaluated Mark Castillo in June 2007, and agreed with a report by psychologist C. David Missar earlier that year that Mark Castillo posed no threat to his children, court papers say. Mark Castillo had received visitation rights following the couple’s divorce in February.
Femia said every judge has been in a situation in which facts presented are insufficient to rule on the side of the petitioner. ‘‘The truth of the matter is, even if we give you a protective order, it’s a piece of paper,” Femia said.
Thomas DeGonia, a former county assistant state’s attorney who now works for Washington, D.C.-based Venable Law Firm, said cases without ‘‘independent evidence to corroborate,” such as witnesses, make judges’ decisions even more difficult.
Cohen of the Maryland Network Against Domestic Abuse said legislation that would lower the standard for proving an ‘‘imminent threat” in the issuance of the orders would make them more effective. But the argument that they did little to dissuade domestic violence is inappropriate, she said.
‘‘Nothing is a guarantee, no matter what you do,” she said.
Steps toward prevention
David L. Levy, the chief executive of the Children’s Rights Council, a Landover-based nonprofit that works to assure continuing contact between children and both parents in divorces, said in cases of alleged abuse, centers providing supervised visitation can ease some of the tension in custody battles.
Such centers currently operate in Clinton and Hyattsville, both run by the Children’s Rights Council, and in Kensington, run by the county’s Family Trauma Services. Judges must order supervised visitation, Levy said.
Cohen said taking all threats more seriously, both through legislation and court action, is important.
‘‘We’d like to see more training of the judges, the core personnel and the evaluators to look for the subtleties, and to recognize power and control, which is what this is all about,” she said. ‘‘Abusers can be very calculating, charming, likeable. ... It’s not always recognized as domestic violence by anybody.”
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
A Mother's Struggle Las Vegas-woman perseveres in a lengthy custody fight to protect her daughter
Oct. 19, 2008 Copyright © Las Vegas Review-Journal
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FAMILY TORN APART
December 1998: Tiffany Barney and Malakai "Sonny" Kaufusi marry in Las Vegas.
August 1999: Barney files for divorce.
October 1999: The estranged couple's daughter is born.
October 2001: Barney and Kaufusi are legally divorced; Barney is granted primary physical custody.
July 2002: Barney's 2-year-old daughter makes what family members interpret as a sexual gesture and comment. Barney contacts police.
August 2002: Kaufusi passes a polygraph exam administered by Ron Slay.
March 2003: Kaufusi files a motion seeking an increase in his visitation time.
May 2003: Family Court Judge Jennifer Elliott hears the case for the first time, orders Barney to take a polygraph exam with Slay.
June 2003: Barney fails the polygraph exam administered by Slay.
August 2003: At a settlement conference in Elliott's courtroom, Barney agrees to share custody equally with Kaufusi.
February 2004: Elliott removes the child, now 4, from both parents and sends her to live with the Evans family.
April 2004 to October 2005: Child lives with Evans family part time and Barney's parents part time.
February 2005: Barney spends 48 hours in jail after denying Kaufusi a visit with his daughter.
October 2005: Elliott removes the child from the Evans home and places her full time with Barney's parents.
March 2006: Barney regains custody.
May 2006: Kaufusi sees his daughter for the last time.
January 2007: Elliott terminates Kaufusi's parental rights.
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Tiffany Barney sits with her daughter in September at their northwest Las Vegas home as the girl, who is now 9, shows off her collection of stuffed animals. Barney claims various professionals’ bias and negligence exposed her daughter to years of sexual abuse.
Photo by John Gurzinski.
Family Court Judge Jennifer Elliott hears a case in September.
She presided over the custody dispute between Tiffany Barney and Malakai Kaufusi for nearly five years. “This is probably one of the longest cases I’ve ever heard in my almost six-year career,” she said.
Photo by John Gurzinski.
Tiffany Barney is shown in a 2005 mug shot taken at the Clark County Detention Center after Judge Jennifer Elliott sentenced her to 48 hours in jail for contempt of court. Tiffany Barney’s daughter plays piano in September at their northwest Las Vegas home. Photo by John Gurzinski.
Ron Slay displays the results of a polygraph exam in September at his Las Vegas business. “You’ll get to know people better in two hours of polygraph than in five years of friendship,” he said. Photo by John Gurzinski.
Campaign signs, including a sign for Judge Jennifer Elliott, appear in September in front of the Maryland Parkway business where Ron Slay conducted polygraph exams on Malakai Kaufusi and Tiffany Barney. Barney claims Slay had a conflict of interest when he tested her after having tested Kaufusi, an allegation Slay denies. Photo by John Gurzinski.
Tiffany Barney found this photo of her ex-husband, Malakai “Sonny” Kaufusi, on the planet-tonga.com Web site in 2007. According to the Web site, it is the largest online community for Tongans and other Pacific Islanders. The image can be found by clicking here.
The 4-year-old girl pleaded with her mother as they headed to her father's home, even saying she wanted to hit him with a baseball bat.
"I want to go to your house," she whimpered, in a secretly recorded 2004 conversation. "I'm scared. I want Mama. Mama. Mama. I'm tired of Sonny's house."
"Why are you scared to go to Sonny's?" her mom, Tiffany Barney, asked.
"I don't want him to touch my cootie," the child replied, using the last word to describe her genitals.
For 18 months, Barney had tried to convince authorities that her ex-husband, Malakai "Sonny" Kaufusi, was sexually abusing their daughter. They had joint custody at the time, but on that January evening, Barney refused to turn her daughter over. Three weeks later, a judge removed the girl from both parents and placed her with relatives of Kaufusi's who had seven other children.
The bitter and fractured situation would only get worse. Before the Family Court case finally ended, there would be 71 different hearings. Was Kaufusi molesting his daughter or, as he contended, was Barney simply using the charges to alienate his daughter from him?
For two years after losing custody, Barney was not allowed to spend time alone with her daughter. The UNLV law student would even go to jail in connection with the case, which involved allegations of substandard performance against a polygraph examiner, a psychologist and a court-appointed attorney who went almost 16 months without seeing his client -- the young girl.
Charges of bias were leveled against the judge, Jennifer Elliott, who heard the case between May 2003 and February, and a complaint was filed three years ago with the Nevada Judicial Discipline Commission. Elliott denies any favoritism and says the case was one of the longest and most difficult she has heard in six years on the Family Court bench. However, at one hearing late in the proceedings, she concluded that Kaufusi had fooled her.
When Barney lost custody of her daughter in 2004, she made plans to take the child, head north and go underground. She got an oil change in preparation for the trip and returned home, where she found her mother in tears.
A friend was there, too, telling her, "If you're in jail, you're no use to your daughter."
So Barney stayed, and fought. But first she had to surrender her daughter to strangers.
"I had to pack her bags to go to a place I didn't want her to go," Barney now recalls. "To try to explain that to her was horrible."
And in the end, it would be Kaufusi who would run.
'A LOT IN COMMON'
Tiffany Barney met Sonny Kaufusi in April 1998 and married him eight months later.
They shared an interest in music: She played piano; he sang and played guitar. Both belonged to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and both wanted to start a family.
"I thought we had a lot in common," said Barney, now 33.
She said relatives initially tried to dissuade her from marrying Kaufusi, whom they considered selfish.
"They warned me not to, but I was so stubborn," she said.
She had cold feet before the wedding, but a church bishop told the couple they were meant to be together. Barney also said Kaufusi had a "silver tongue" and knew how to use church doctrine to sway her.
Kaufusi, whose parents emigrated from Tonga, was 10 years her senior. He had been married before but had no children.
He received a bachelor's degree in psychology from the University of Utah in Salt Lake City and was working as a child development specialist when Barney met him. A spokesman at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas said Kaufusi took graduate courses in social work between 1995 and 2000 but did not earn a degree.
Barney, one of seven children, was born and raised in Las Vegas. She received a bachelor's degree in zoology from Brigham Young University in Provo, Utah.
She and her brother Tony, the children of a stay-at-home mother and longtime Las Vegas dentist, are the only lawyers in the family.
Barney said Kaufusi, one of 10 children, wanted to establish a rehabilitation center in Tonga for troubled teens and often asked her to give money for the project. She refused.
But she did help him pay off his debts, which she discovered after their marriage. She said she soon realized she didn't know her husband. And she said he made her feel "ugly" and "stupid."
In June 1999, shortly after learning she was pregnant, Barney left Kaufusi.
"I was dying," she said. "I was not me."
The couple's divorce was final in October 2001, and Barney was granted primary physical custody of their 1-year-old daughter, whose name is not being used in this story at the request of her mother. Kaufusi was allowed to have visitation with the girl each week from Friday evening until Sunday morning.
For several months after the divorce, Tony Barney recalled, "There was a period of peace."
But it didn't last.
A SHOCKING REVELATION
Everything changed in July 2002.
Barney was at her parents' home, and her father was wearing a swimsuit. Barney watched as her 2-year-old daughter reached toward his penis, prompting him to ask his grandchild what she was doing.
The girl then gave this shocking answer: "I want to see if milk comes out."
Barney said she and her younger sister both heard the remark.
"It was just very concerning," Barney said.
Barney called a friend who was a private investigator, who in turn gave her the name of a Metropolitan Police Department detective.
The detective interviewed the child and told Barney not to return her to Kaufusi. The child also underwent a medical exam, which showed no evidence of sexual abuse.
Child Protective Services then took over the investigation and asked Kaufusi to submit to a polygraph exam. Examiner Ron Slay tested Kaufusi and found him truthful, supporting the father's statement that he had not sexually abused his daughter.
After about a month, a CPS worker told Barney to resume the visitation.
Barney said her daughter then started telling her, as well as Barney's sisters and mother, about incidents of sexual abuse. Barney began hiding a recorder in her bra to capture her daughter's words, and she began taking the child to a therapist.
In March 2003, Kaufusi filed a motion seeking increased visitation time with his daughter. As a result, the case landed in Elliott's courtroom two months later.
Things quickly went Kaufusi's way.
At the first hearing Elliott conducted, she ordered Barney to submit to a polygraph exam with Slay regarding the allegation that Kaufusi was molesting his child, and the judge referred the family to psychologist Stephanie Holland for an evaluation.
The next month, Barney took the polygraph exam and failed, though she would later find experts who challenged that result.
Holland prepared her report for Elliott in August 2003. The psychologist's report noted that she had discussed the results of both parents' polygraph exams with Slay.
"With that information, she was already biased in her head," Barney now contends.
Among those who supported Kaufusi during Holland's evaluation was longtime Clark County Commissioner Bruce Woodbury.
In a July 2003 letter to Elliott, Woodbury gave his assurances that Kaufusi was "a young man of the highest character and integrity with strong personal values."
"I believe he will always be a loving, caring father who will do what is right for his child," Woodbury wrote on Board of County Commissioners letterhead.
When asked about the letter recently, Woodbury said he wouldn't have gotten involved in the court case if he had known about the allegations of sexual abuse against Kaufusi.
"If he is guilty of these accusations, that would come as a great shock to me, since he was a friend of my daughter and seemed like a kind, caring individual," Woodbury said.
The commissioner said he hasn't seen Kaufusi in many years and didn't know the outcome of the Family Court case.
Holland met with Barney and Kaufusi before preparing her report.
According to the report, Kaufusi felt that Barney's family disliked him. "He reports that for the past sixteen years he has worked as a social worker with children of abuse and adds that Tiffany's family has 'found a road they could take to destroy me.'"
Holland asked Kaufusi to complete a sexual interest assessment, which revealed that he did "not appear to have a persistent sexual attraction to preschool children" but did "appear to have persistent sexual attraction to grade school children."
The Abel assessment referenced in Holland's report typically attempts to gauge a person's interest in various images he views on a computer screen.
"Note that this assessment has questionable validity," Holland wrote. "Therefore the results have to be interpreted with caution."
Holland suggested that the child had a hard time going to and from Kaufusi's home because she knew her mother would "interrogate" her when she returned.
The report indicated Holland met with the child once individually, but that the child gave inconsistent information. According to the report, the girl told Holland "that her father touched her private parts inappropriately."
"This examiner feels moderately strongly that there has not been any inappropriate interaction of a sexual nature between Mr. Kaufusi and his daughter," Holland wrote. "Of course, there is always the possibility that Mr. Kaufusi has strong sociopathic tendencies and is able to present favorably, but this is felt to be doubtful."
According to the report, Holland "strongly felt" that Barney "wholeheartedly" believed that Kaufusi had sexually abused their daughter.
But the psychologist added that "the situation is ripe for false allegations and fabrications to be made to gain attention, but more likely and more importantly, to gain her mother's approval."
Holland concluded that the child was not at risk when in the presence of her father and added, "If Tiffany does not stop seeking unnecessary medical attention she will continue to send the message that Sonny is dangerous."
The child's relationship with her father "will not be able to withstand this and it will deteriorate rapidly," the psychologist wrote.
BARNEY BACKS DOWN
A pivotal event in the Family Court case occurred in August 2003, when Elliott conducted a settlement conference after receiving Holland's report.
Barney said the meeting left her fearing that Kaufusi would receive full custody if she continued to fight. Rather than take that risk, she settled for joint custody.
But, Barney said, her daughter continued to tell her and others she was being abused. So on Jan. 22, 2004, Barney recorded her daughter's haunting words as the girl resisted returning to Kaufusi's home.
Barney turned the tape over to police and refused to take the child to Kaufusi, prompting him to file a motion for full custody.
Back in court three weeks later, Elliott appointed attorney Christopher Tilman to serve as the child's guardian ad litem and represent her interests.
Although the judge denied Kaufusi's motion, she granted his request to remove the girl from Barney's custody and place her in the home of Roy and Lela Evans, distant relatives of Kaufusi's.
Barney had to give up her child that day. She said she knew nothing about the Evans family, and neither did Elliott, who limited both parents to supervised visits with their daughter.
The mother said she soon learned that Roy and Lela Evans both worked and that they had seven children. She also learned that her daughter slept on a couch in the family's Henderson home.
Barney hired a private investigator, who conducted surveillance at the Evans home for three days in mid-February 2004. In an affidavit, the investigator offered his opinion that Kaufusi had spent those days at the Evans home "in the company of his daughter."
In an emergency motion to protect the child's safety, Barney claimed her ex-husband had unrestricted and unlimited access to his daughter at the Evans home, "while denying this right to her mother."
In an interview last week, Roy Evans said the girl and her father never were alone at his home.
"If I wasn't around, my mom was around," he said.
Barney said Tilman never went to the home to visit the child.
Tilman could not be reached for comment on this story. Last year, Tilman was named in a Review-Journal story that called into question the billing practices of court-appointed attorneys.
The newspaper reported that Tilman had billed the county for more hours than a day contains on numerous occasions in 2006. In interviews, Tilman said he did not know he had overbilled and speculated that the work he reported doing might have included other attorneys helping him.
Between April 2004 and October 2005, as a result of a new court order, Barney's daughter spent half of each week with the Evanses and the other half with Barney's parents.
The girl's mother and father were to continue having only supervised visits with her.
AN 'UNSUITABLE' HOME
Barney said her attorney sought Tilman's assistance in early December 2004 when it appeared Kaufusi was planning to have an unsupervised visit with the child, but Tilman failed to respond to numerous phone calls from Barney's attorney.
On her lawyer's advice, Barney and her mother refused to turn the child over to Kaufusi on Dec. 4, 2004.
At a February 2005 hearing, Elliott held Barney in contempt of court for doing so and sentenced her to 48 hours in jail.
"It was just unbelievable," Barney recalled. "I was in shock."
Barney said Tilman met with her daughter for the first time in nearly 16 months on July 22, 2005. Four days later, Barney filed a motion seeking his removal from the case.
Tilman was allowed to withdraw at a September 2005 hearing, and Elliott appointed attorney Jeanne Winkler as his replacement.
According to a lawsuit Barney would later file against Tilman and others, Winkler met with the child at both homes and reported at an October 2005 hearing that the Evans home was an unsuitable placement for the girl. Winkler also said the child had "disclosed details relating to instances of sexual abuse perpetrated by Kaufusi while she was staying" at the Evans home, according to the lawsuit.
Elliott then placed the child full time in the home of Barney's parents.
In the interview last week, Roy Evans adamantly defended Kaufusi and said he still believes the man never abused his child. He accused Barney of coaching her daughter to make incriminating statements about Kaufusi, and added, "It's a racial thing."
"The only reason she married Sonny was to spite her family," he said.
Winkler's law license was suspended earlier this year amid allegations that she misappropriated funds from her attorney-client trust account.
Despite those allegations, Barney said she will always be grateful to Winkler for her efforts to ensure her daughter's safety.
PEDOPHILE ISSUES
Elliott appointed another psychologist, Louis Mortillaro, to evaluate the allegations that Kaufusi was sexually abusing his daughter, and his testing was completed in March 2006. After receiving his report, which remains confidential, Elliott ordered Kaufusi to undergo counseling with an expert in pedophile issues and returned the child to her mother's custody.
Mortillaro previously had instructed that the child be seen by psychologist Melissa Kalodner. In May 2006, Kalodner wrote Elliott a letter in which she urged the judge to end Kaufusi's visitation with his daughter. Kalodner had been treating the child for 16 months.
"The bottom line and the main reason for my writing of this letter is to let you know that this six-year-old girl's mental disorders will not be mended any time soon if she is continuously forced to visit the man who violently raped her and threatened to kill her mother and herself," the psychologist wrote.
According to the letter, the girl had "begged" Kalodner to make the visits with her father stop "because she is scared of him."
Elliott heeded the psychologist's warning. The next day, the judge put an end to Kaufusi's visitation and ordered him to remain 12 feet away from all children.
At a deposition in June 2006, Kaufusi was questioned by Barney's lawyers about the sexual abuse allegations, and he repeatedly denied molesting his daughter. He also denied that he had threatened to kill her and her mother if the child told anyone that he had abused her.
"The sexual abuse that you guys made lies about is very offensive," said Kaufusi, who also expressed his belief that Barney was "coaching" their daughter to make the allegations.
The next day, Elliott had an emergency hearing after receiving evidence indicating that Kaufusi had been intercepting e-mail messages between Barney and her lawyers.
Elliott ordered Kaufusi to turn over his computer by 5 p.m. He did, but he never returned to court, and the judge issued a warrant for his arrest for contempt of court. The warrant remains active, and Barney has evidence that Kaufusi fled to Tonga, an archipelago in the South Pacific Ocean.
Review-Journal records show that Kaufusi worked part time for the newspaper's circulation department from late March 2006 until he resigned in mid-June 2006.
At the May 2006 hearing, Kaufusi was served in court with a legal document known as "requests for admission."
The document, prepared on Barney's behalf in preparation for the custody trial, asked Kaufusi to admit that he had committed various sexual acts with his daughter. It also asked him to admit that two other men had sexually molested the girl at his Las Vegas apartment.
Kaufusi, the defendant in the Family Court case, was advised in court that his responses were due in 30 days and that his failure to respond would mean that the statements would be considered admissions.
In July 2006, after Kaufusi failed to respond, a court order was entered declaring that Barney's requests "shall be deemed admissions by defendant."
Requests for admission are used during the discovery process in civil cases, and experts said it is unlikely that the court order based on Kaufusi's failure to respond could be used in the prosecution of a criminal case. Kaufusi has never faced criminal charges related to the sexual assault allegations.
In January 2007, Elliott terminated his parental rights, almost five years after Barney first raised the sexual abuse allegations.
Roy Evans, who now has eight children, said Kaufusi will speak with his daughter again after she turns 18.
"He doesn't have money to fight it in court," Roy Evans said.
He said he e-mails Kaufusi "once in a while." Asked whether he knows the man's whereabouts, he replied, "I do, but I'm not going to tell you."
POLICE INVESTIGATE
Lt. Ray Steiber, who heads the Metropolitan Police Department's special victims unit, said records show that detectives conducted three investigations of Kaufusi, and all were closed because of insufficient evidence.
"There was no probable cause to believe a crime had been committed by the father against this little girl," said Steiber, who was not involved in the investigations.
None of the detectives involved in those investigations remains in his unit, and Steiber said he knew nothing about the investigations before the Review-Journal asked him to review the records.
He said police have received no new information since the last investigation was closed in July 2005, and he was not aware of Kalodner's May 2006 letter, which said the child had told the psychologist that her father had "brutally vaginally and anally raped her on many different occasions."
With those types of allegations, Steiber said, "it's fair to say that there would be physical evidence."
Barney said her daughter underwent two medical exams that revealed no evidence of sexual assault, but she did not take the child for any exams during the 16-month period when Kalodner was treating her.
"I was afraid of getting in trouble, because they crucified me in court for having done the two exams," said Barney, noting that a police detective had requested the first exam.
A 2004 officer's report indicates that police had been informed about the results of the polygraph exams Slay had conducted.
JUDGE: EVERYBODY FOOLED
Elliott said she still doesn't know the truth behind the sexual abuse allegations because the Family Court custody case never went to trial and "was never decided on the merits."
The judge said she can draw no conclusions from Kaufusi's disappearance. He could have left because he was guilty or because he was tired of the litigation, she said.
"Conflict is painful for people," said the judge, who referred to Barney as a "disgruntled litigant."
Elliott said litigants often attack "neutrals" in a case when they can't punish their opponents: "It's human nature to feel that there are loose ends."
However, Elliott had a different tone in court on July 6, 2006, when she said Kaufusi had fooled everybody involved in the case and that she, as a judge, had "been played."
"I'm not saying that he's a guilty man in terms of the allegations in a criminal manner, but they have a right to pursue that," Elliott said from the bench. "But what he isn't is he is not here, and if he's not here, why not? If he is so innocent, why is he not here in court?"
"Because he believes the tide has turned against him and now he is being railroaded," answered his attorney, Phil Beuth. "And that's what he's expressed to me."
Elliott unsealed the case at that hearing and lifted a gag order she had placed on the parties.
Neither Beuth nor attorney Carol Menninger, who previously represented Kaufusi, responded to messages seeking comment for this story.
COMPLAINTS FILED
Barney and her lawyers, brother Tony and Lisa Rasmussen, filed an ethics complaint against Elliott with the Judicial Discipline Commission in June 2005. The complaint, which is confidential, is still pending.
"I think when the court fails to protect the child, it's really unforgiveable," Rasmussen said.
She said Elliott made a "snap decision" early in the case and refused to back down from it. The lawyer argued that Elliott "believed everything Kaufusi said, and she didn't ever believe anything that Tiffany said."
Elliott said no one from the discipline commission has interviewed her about the ethics complaint.
Barney argues that Elliott wanted to believe she was lying about the sexual abuse and, in turn, alienating her daughter from Kaufusi.
"It's easier to say it's not happening than to do a thorough investigation and find out that it is," Barney said.
She said Elliott "almost made it seem like parental alienation was worse than sexual abuse."
Elliott, who also is a licensed marriage and family therapist, said she doesn't think the two can be compared. "They each can uniquely damage a child very, very badly," she said.
Last year, Barney filed a lawsuit on her daughter's behalf against Slay, Holland and Tilman. Barney claims their negligence, combined with Elliott's bias in favor of Kaufusi, exposed her daughter to years of sexual assault.
Earlier this year, Barney filed a separate lawsuit against Kaufusi and Tilman. Judicial immunity prevented Barney from suing Elliott.
"Change has got to be made to protect the children in this court system," Barney said.
Holland declined to comment on Barney's lawsuit, which accused the psychologist of conducting a "substandard and invalid evaluation."
District Judge David Barker has dismissed the claims against Holland and Slay. Although Barney is appealing the judge's ruling regarding Slay, she dropped her claims against Holland in January.
Barney said the Nevada Supreme Court previously has ruled that court-appointed psychologists are immune from liability, but the high court never has granted that protection to polygraph examiners.
POLYGRAPH EXAMS DEFENDED
In her lawsuit, Barney claims Slay had a conflict of interest when he tested her after having tested Kaufusi "concerning the same legal issue." She also claims Slay's "compound and complex questions" caused her to fail the exam.
During a recent interview at Slay's Maryland Parkway office, where he has conducted thousands of polygraph exams over the past three decades, he discussed the first lawsuit he has faced in connection with his lie-detection work.
Slay said Barney seemed to understand the questions he asked, and he denied that his exams of both parents amounted to a conflict of interest.
"I've done both sides many times," he said.
Sometimes both sides pass their tests, Slay said, and sometimes they both fail.
"It doesn't occur to me even remotely that having done the first test and reached a decision should in any way influence the decision of the test I'm about to do," he said.
Nevertheless, Slay said, when Barney arrived for her polygraph, he did not know about her connection to Kaufusi. Slay said Barney informed him that he had tested her ex-husband.
"She told me the outcome of his test," said Slay, who defended the validity of the results from both exams.
Barney said she had no idea Slay had previously tested Kaufusi.
According to the lawsuit, Kaufusi was ordered to take another polygraph exam with a different examiner in July 2005, and he failed that test.
A DAUGHTER RECOVERS
Barney said her daughter, who recently turned 9, is doing "remarkably well" now but still fears her father will return.
"I think she thinks I can't protect her, and that's her fear, her big fear," Barney said. "And maybe I can't."
The two live in a guest house behind the home of Barney's parents in northwest Las Vegas.
Barney gives credit to God for the "little miracles" that happened in her case. "I think the Lord was watching out for my daughter," she said. "I think he wanted her to have a good life."
Barney, who still carries the guilt of forcing her daughter to visit Kaufusi for so many years, said everyone has their trials to endure. She believes the hardships she and her daughter have faced will make both of them appreciate goodness.
Barney also believes her daughter's experience will make her a positive force for other abused children.
"I truly believe that, and I think that's why she was saved," Barney said.
On a recent afternoon, Barney's daughter chomped on bubble gum while showing a visitor her collection of Webkinz stuffed animals. She also played some of the songs she has mastered on the piano. She told stories and frequently laughed.
Asked how she felt about her father, she paused and answered softly:
"I'm happy that he's gone. I feel more safe."
Contact reporter Carri Geer Thevenot at cgeer@reviewjournal.com or 702-380-8135.
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FAMILY TORN APART
December 1998: Tiffany Barney and Malakai "Sonny" Kaufusi marry in Las Vegas.
August 1999: Barney files for divorce.
October 1999: The estranged couple's daughter is born.
October 2001: Barney and Kaufusi are legally divorced; Barney is granted primary physical custody.
July 2002: Barney's 2-year-old daughter makes what family members interpret as a sexual gesture and comment. Barney contacts police.
August 2002: Kaufusi passes a polygraph exam administered by Ron Slay.
March 2003: Kaufusi files a motion seeking an increase in his visitation time.
May 2003: Family Court Judge Jennifer Elliott hears the case for the first time, orders Barney to take a polygraph exam with Slay.
June 2003: Barney fails the polygraph exam administered by Slay.
August 2003: At a settlement conference in Elliott's courtroom, Barney agrees to share custody equally with Kaufusi.
February 2004: Elliott removes the child, now 4, from both parents and sends her to live with the Evans family.
April 2004 to October 2005: Child lives with Evans family part time and Barney's parents part time.
February 2005: Barney spends 48 hours in jail after denying Kaufusi a visit with his daughter.
October 2005: Elliott removes the child from the Evans home and places her full time with Barney's parents.
March 2006: Barney regains custody.
May 2006: Kaufusi sees his daughter for the last time.
January 2007: Elliott terminates Kaufusi's parental rights.
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Tiffany Barney sits with her daughter in September at their northwest Las Vegas home as the girl, who is now 9, shows off her collection of stuffed animals. Barney claims various professionals’ bias and negligence exposed her daughter to years of sexual abuse.
Photo by John Gurzinski.
Family Court Judge Jennifer Elliott hears a case in September.
She presided over the custody dispute between Tiffany Barney and Malakai Kaufusi for nearly five years. “This is probably one of the longest cases I’ve ever heard in my almost six-year career,” she said.
Photo by John Gurzinski.
Tiffany Barney is shown in a 2005 mug shot taken at the Clark County Detention Center after Judge Jennifer Elliott sentenced her to 48 hours in jail for contempt of court. Tiffany Barney’s daughter plays piano in September at their northwest Las Vegas home. Photo by John Gurzinski.
Ron Slay displays the results of a polygraph exam in September at his Las Vegas business. “You’ll get to know people better in two hours of polygraph than in five years of friendship,” he said. Photo by John Gurzinski.
Campaign signs, including a sign for Judge Jennifer Elliott, appear in September in front of the Maryland Parkway business where Ron Slay conducted polygraph exams on Malakai Kaufusi and Tiffany Barney. Barney claims Slay had a conflict of interest when he tested her after having tested Kaufusi, an allegation Slay denies. Photo by John Gurzinski.
Tiffany Barney found this photo of her ex-husband, Malakai “Sonny” Kaufusi, on the planet-tonga.com Web site in 2007. According to the Web site, it is the largest online community for Tongans and other Pacific Islanders. The image can be found by clicking here.
The 4-year-old girl pleaded with her mother as they headed to her father's home, even saying she wanted to hit him with a baseball bat.
"I want to go to your house," she whimpered, in a secretly recorded 2004 conversation. "I'm scared. I want Mama. Mama. Mama. I'm tired of Sonny's house."
"Why are you scared to go to Sonny's?" her mom, Tiffany Barney, asked.
"I don't want him to touch my cootie," the child replied, using the last word to describe her genitals.
For 18 months, Barney had tried to convince authorities that her ex-husband, Malakai "Sonny" Kaufusi, was sexually abusing their daughter. They had joint custody at the time, but on that January evening, Barney refused to turn her daughter over. Three weeks later, a judge removed the girl from both parents and placed her with relatives of Kaufusi's who had seven other children.
The bitter and fractured situation would only get worse. Before the Family Court case finally ended, there would be 71 different hearings. Was Kaufusi molesting his daughter or, as he contended, was Barney simply using the charges to alienate his daughter from him?
For two years after losing custody, Barney was not allowed to spend time alone with her daughter. The UNLV law student would even go to jail in connection with the case, which involved allegations of substandard performance against a polygraph examiner, a psychologist and a court-appointed attorney who went almost 16 months without seeing his client -- the young girl.
Charges of bias were leveled against the judge, Jennifer Elliott, who heard the case between May 2003 and February, and a complaint was filed three years ago with the Nevada Judicial Discipline Commission. Elliott denies any favoritism and says the case was one of the longest and most difficult she has heard in six years on the Family Court bench. However, at one hearing late in the proceedings, she concluded that Kaufusi had fooled her.
When Barney lost custody of her daughter in 2004, she made plans to take the child, head north and go underground. She got an oil change in preparation for the trip and returned home, where she found her mother in tears.
A friend was there, too, telling her, "If you're in jail, you're no use to your daughter."
So Barney stayed, and fought. But first she had to surrender her daughter to strangers.
"I had to pack her bags to go to a place I didn't want her to go," Barney now recalls. "To try to explain that to her was horrible."
And in the end, it would be Kaufusi who would run.
'A LOT IN COMMON'
Tiffany Barney met Sonny Kaufusi in April 1998 and married him eight months later.
They shared an interest in music: She played piano; he sang and played guitar. Both belonged to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and both wanted to start a family.
"I thought we had a lot in common," said Barney, now 33.
She said relatives initially tried to dissuade her from marrying Kaufusi, whom they considered selfish.
"They warned me not to, but I was so stubborn," she said.
She had cold feet before the wedding, but a church bishop told the couple they were meant to be together. Barney also said Kaufusi had a "silver tongue" and knew how to use church doctrine to sway her.
Kaufusi, whose parents emigrated from Tonga, was 10 years her senior. He had been married before but had no children.
He received a bachelor's degree in psychology from the University of Utah in Salt Lake City and was working as a child development specialist when Barney met him. A spokesman at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas said Kaufusi took graduate courses in social work between 1995 and 2000 but did not earn a degree.
Barney, one of seven children, was born and raised in Las Vegas. She received a bachelor's degree in zoology from Brigham Young University in Provo, Utah.
She and her brother Tony, the children of a stay-at-home mother and longtime Las Vegas dentist, are the only lawyers in the family.
Barney said Kaufusi, one of 10 children, wanted to establish a rehabilitation center in Tonga for troubled teens and often asked her to give money for the project. She refused.
But she did help him pay off his debts, which she discovered after their marriage. She said she soon realized she didn't know her husband. And she said he made her feel "ugly" and "stupid."
In June 1999, shortly after learning she was pregnant, Barney left Kaufusi.
"I was dying," she said. "I was not me."
The couple's divorce was final in October 2001, and Barney was granted primary physical custody of their 1-year-old daughter, whose name is not being used in this story at the request of her mother. Kaufusi was allowed to have visitation with the girl each week from Friday evening until Sunday morning.
For several months after the divorce, Tony Barney recalled, "There was a period of peace."
But it didn't last.
A SHOCKING REVELATION
Everything changed in July 2002.
Barney was at her parents' home, and her father was wearing a swimsuit. Barney watched as her 2-year-old daughter reached toward his penis, prompting him to ask his grandchild what she was doing.
The girl then gave this shocking answer: "I want to see if milk comes out."
Barney said she and her younger sister both heard the remark.
"It was just very concerning," Barney said.
Barney called a friend who was a private investigator, who in turn gave her the name of a Metropolitan Police Department detective.
The detective interviewed the child and told Barney not to return her to Kaufusi. The child also underwent a medical exam, which showed no evidence of sexual abuse.
Child Protective Services then took over the investigation and asked Kaufusi to submit to a polygraph exam. Examiner Ron Slay tested Kaufusi and found him truthful, supporting the father's statement that he had not sexually abused his daughter.
After about a month, a CPS worker told Barney to resume the visitation.
Barney said her daughter then started telling her, as well as Barney's sisters and mother, about incidents of sexual abuse. Barney began hiding a recorder in her bra to capture her daughter's words, and she began taking the child to a therapist.
In March 2003, Kaufusi filed a motion seeking increased visitation time with his daughter. As a result, the case landed in Elliott's courtroom two months later.
Things quickly went Kaufusi's way.
At the first hearing Elliott conducted, she ordered Barney to submit to a polygraph exam with Slay regarding the allegation that Kaufusi was molesting his child, and the judge referred the family to psychologist Stephanie Holland for an evaluation.
The next month, Barney took the polygraph exam and failed, though she would later find experts who challenged that result.
Holland prepared her report for Elliott in August 2003. The psychologist's report noted that she had discussed the results of both parents' polygraph exams with Slay.
"With that information, she was already biased in her head," Barney now contends.
Among those who supported Kaufusi during Holland's evaluation was longtime Clark County Commissioner Bruce Woodbury.
In a July 2003 letter to Elliott, Woodbury gave his assurances that Kaufusi was "a young man of the highest character and integrity with strong personal values."
"I believe he will always be a loving, caring father who will do what is right for his child," Woodbury wrote on Board of County Commissioners letterhead.
When asked about the letter recently, Woodbury said he wouldn't have gotten involved in the court case if he had known about the allegations of sexual abuse against Kaufusi.
"If he is guilty of these accusations, that would come as a great shock to me, since he was a friend of my daughter and seemed like a kind, caring individual," Woodbury said.
The commissioner said he hasn't seen Kaufusi in many years and didn't know the outcome of the Family Court case.
Holland met with Barney and Kaufusi before preparing her report.
According to the report, Kaufusi felt that Barney's family disliked him. "He reports that for the past sixteen years he has worked as a social worker with children of abuse and adds that Tiffany's family has 'found a road they could take to destroy me.'"
Holland asked Kaufusi to complete a sexual interest assessment, which revealed that he did "not appear to have a persistent sexual attraction to preschool children" but did "appear to have persistent sexual attraction to grade school children."
The Abel assessment referenced in Holland's report typically attempts to gauge a person's interest in various images he views on a computer screen.
"Note that this assessment has questionable validity," Holland wrote. "Therefore the results have to be interpreted with caution."
Holland suggested that the child had a hard time going to and from Kaufusi's home because she knew her mother would "interrogate" her when she returned.
The report indicated Holland met with the child once individually, but that the child gave inconsistent information. According to the report, the girl told Holland "that her father touched her private parts inappropriately."
"This examiner feels moderately strongly that there has not been any inappropriate interaction of a sexual nature between Mr. Kaufusi and his daughter," Holland wrote. "Of course, there is always the possibility that Mr. Kaufusi has strong sociopathic tendencies and is able to present favorably, but this is felt to be doubtful."
According to the report, Holland "strongly felt" that Barney "wholeheartedly" believed that Kaufusi had sexually abused their daughter.
But the psychologist added that "the situation is ripe for false allegations and fabrications to be made to gain attention, but more likely and more importantly, to gain her mother's approval."
Holland concluded that the child was not at risk when in the presence of her father and added, "If Tiffany does not stop seeking unnecessary medical attention she will continue to send the message that Sonny is dangerous."
The child's relationship with her father "will not be able to withstand this and it will deteriorate rapidly," the psychologist wrote.
BARNEY BACKS DOWN
A pivotal event in the Family Court case occurred in August 2003, when Elliott conducted a settlement conference after receiving Holland's report.
Barney said the meeting left her fearing that Kaufusi would receive full custody if she continued to fight. Rather than take that risk, she settled for joint custody.
But, Barney said, her daughter continued to tell her and others she was being abused. So on Jan. 22, 2004, Barney recorded her daughter's haunting words as the girl resisted returning to Kaufusi's home.
Barney turned the tape over to police and refused to take the child to Kaufusi, prompting him to file a motion for full custody.
Back in court three weeks later, Elliott appointed attorney Christopher Tilman to serve as the child's guardian ad litem and represent her interests.
Although the judge denied Kaufusi's motion, she granted his request to remove the girl from Barney's custody and place her in the home of Roy and Lela Evans, distant relatives of Kaufusi's.
Barney had to give up her child that day. She said she knew nothing about the Evans family, and neither did Elliott, who limited both parents to supervised visits with their daughter.
The mother said she soon learned that Roy and Lela Evans both worked and that they had seven children. She also learned that her daughter slept on a couch in the family's Henderson home.
Barney hired a private investigator, who conducted surveillance at the Evans home for three days in mid-February 2004. In an affidavit, the investigator offered his opinion that Kaufusi had spent those days at the Evans home "in the company of his daughter."
In an emergency motion to protect the child's safety, Barney claimed her ex-husband had unrestricted and unlimited access to his daughter at the Evans home, "while denying this right to her mother."
In an interview last week, Roy Evans said the girl and her father never were alone at his home.
"If I wasn't around, my mom was around," he said.
Barney said Tilman never went to the home to visit the child.
Tilman could not be reached for comment on this story. Last year, Tilman was named in a Review-Journal story that called into question the billing practices of court-appointed attorneys.
The newspaper reported that Tilman had billed the county for more hours than a day contains on numerous occasions in 2006. In interviews, Tilman said he did not know he had overbilled and speculated that the work he reported doing might have included other attorneys helping him.
Between April 2004 and October 2005, as a result of a new court order, Barney's daughter spent half of each week with the Evanses and the other half with Barney's parents.
The girl's mother and father were to continue having only supervised visits with her.
AN 'UNSUITABLE' HOME
Barney said her attorney sought Tilman's assistance in early December 2004 when it appeared Kaufusi was planning to have an unsupervised visit with the child, but Tilman failed to respond to numerous phone calls from Barney's attorney.
On her lawyer's advice, Barney and her mother refused to turn the child over to Kaufusi on Dec. 4, 2004.
At a February 2005 hearing, Elliott held Barney in contempt of court for doing so and sentenced her to 48 hours in jail.
"It was just unbelievable," Barney recalled. "I was in shock."
Barney said Tilman met with her daughter for the first time in nearly 16 months on July 22, 2005. Four days later, Barney filed a motion seeking his removal from the case.
Tilman was allowed to withdraw at a September 2005 hearing, and Elliott appointed attorney Jeanne Winkler as his replacement.
According to a lawsuit Barney would later file against Tilman and others, Winkler met with the child at both homes and reported at an October 2005 hearing that the Evans home was an unsuitable placement for the girl. Winkler also said the child had "disclosed details relating to instances of sexual abuse perpetrated by Kaufusi while she was staying" at the Evans home, according to the lawsuit.
Elliott then placed the child full time in the home of Barney's parents.
In the interview last week, Roy Evans adamantly defended Kaufusi and said he still believes the man never abused his child. He accused Barney of coaching her daughter to make incriminating statements about Kaufusi, and added, "It's a racial thing."
"The only reason she married Sonny was to spite her family," he said.
Winkler's law license was suspended earlier this year amid allegations that she misappropriated funds from her attorney-client trust account.
Despite those allegations, Barney said she will always be grateful to Winkler for her efforts to ensure her daughter's safety.
PEDOPHILE ISSUES
Elliott appointed another psychologist, Louis Mortillaro, to evaluate the allegations that Kaufusi was sexually abusing his daughter, and his testing was completed in March 2006. After receiving his report, which remains confidential, Elliott ordered Kaufusi to undergo counseling with an expert in pedophile issues and returned the child to her mother's custody.
Mortillaro previously had instructed that the child be seen by psychologist Melissa Kalodner. In May 2006, Kalodner wrote Elliott a letter in which she urged the judge to end Kaufusi's visitation with his daughter. Kalodner had been treating the child for 16 months.
"The bottom line and the main reason for my writing of this letter is to let you know that this six-year-old girl's mental disorders will not be mended any time soon if she is continuously forced to visit the man who violently raped her and threatened to kill her mother and herself," the psychologist wrote.
According to the letter, the girl had "begged" Kalodner to make the visits with her father stop "because she is scared of him."
Elliott heeded the psychologist's warning. The next day, the judge put an end to Kaufusi's visitation and ordered him to remain 12 feet away from all children.
At a deposition in June 2006, Kaufusi was questioned by Barney's lawyers about the sexual abuse allegations, and he repeatedly denied molesting his daughter. He also denied that he had threatened to kill her and her mother if the child told anyone that he had abused her.
"The sexual abuse that you guys made lies about is very offensive," said Kaufusi, who also expressed his belief that Barney was "coaching" their daughter to make the allegations.
The next day, Elliott had an emergency hearing after receiving evidence indicating that Kaufusi had been intercepting e-mail messages between Barney and her lawyers.
Elliott ordered Kaufusi to turn over his computer by 5 p.m. He did, but he never returned to court, and the judge issued a warrant for his arrest for contempt of court. The warrant remains active, and Barney has evidence that Kaufusi fled to Tonga, an archipelago in the South Pacific Ocean.
Review-Journal records show that Kaufusi worked part time for the newspaper's circulation department from late March 2006 until he resigned in mid-June 2006.
At the May 2006 hearing, Kaufusi was served in court with a legal document known as "requests for admission."
The document, prepared on Barney's behalf in preparation for the custody trial, asked Kaufusi to admit that he had committed various sexual acts with his daughter. It also asked him to admit that two other men had sexually molested the girl at his Las Vegas apartment.
Kaufusi, the defendant in the Family Court case, was advised in court that his responses were due in 30 days and that his failure to respond would mean that the statements would be considered admissions.
In July 2006, after Kaufusi failed to respond, a court order was entered declaring that Barney's requests "shall be deemed admissions by defendant."
Requests for admission are used during the discovery process in civil cases, and experts said it is unlikely that the court order based on Kaufusi's failure to respond could be used in the prosecution of a criminal case. Kaufusi has never faced criminal charges related to the sexual assault allegations.
In January 2007, Elliott terminated his parental rights, almost five years after Barney first raised the sexual abuse allegations.
Roy Evans, who now has eight children, said Kaufusi will speak with his daughter again after she turns 18.
"He doesn't have money to fight it in court," Roy Evans said.
He said he e-mails Kaufusi "once in a while." Asked whether he knows the man's whereabouts, he replied, "I do, but I'm not going to tell you."
POLICE INVESTIGATE
Lt. Ray Steiber, who heads the Metropolitan Police Department's special victims unit, said records show that detectives conducted three investigations of Kaufusi, and all were closed because of insufficient evidence.
"There was no probable cause to believe a crime had been committed by the father against this little girl," said Steiber, who was not involved in the investigations.
None of the detectives involved in those investigations remains in his unit, and Steiber said he knew nothing about the investigations before the Review-Journal asked him to review the records.
He said police have received no new information since the last investigation was closed in July 2005, and he was not aware of Kalodner's May 2006 letter, which said the child had told the psychologist that her father had "brutally vaginally and anally raped her on many different occasions."
With those types of allegations, Steiber said, "it's fair to say that there would be physical evidence."
Barney said her daughter underwent two medical exams that revealed no evidence of sexual assault, but she did not take the child for any exams during the 16-month period when Kalodner was treating her.
"I was afraid of getting in trouble, because they crucified me in court for having done the two exams," said Barney, noting that a police detective had requested the first exam.
A 2004 officer's report indicates that police had been informed about the results of the polygraph exams Slay had conducted.
JUDGE: EVERYBODY FOOLED
Elliott said she still doesn't know the truth behind the sexual abuse allegations because the Family Court custody case never went to trial and "was never decided on the merits."
The judge said she can draw no conclusions from Kaufusi's disappearance. He could have left because he was guilty or because he was tired of the litigation, she said.
"Conflict is painful for people," said the judge, who referred to Barney as a "disgruntled litigant."
Elliott said litigants often attack "neutrals" in a case when they can't punish their opponents: "It's human nature to feel that there are loose ends."
However, Elliott had a different tone in court on July 6, 2006, when she said Kaufusi had fooled everybody involved in the case and that she, as a judge, had "been played."
"I'm not saying that he's a guilty man in terms of the allegations in a criminal manner, but they have a right to pursue that," Elliott said from the bench. "But what he isn't is he is not here, and if he's not here, why not? If he is so innocent, why is he not here in court?"
"Because he believes the tide has turned against him and now he is being railroaded," answered his attorney, Phil Beuth. "And that's what he's expressed to me."
Elliott unsealed the case at that hearing and lifted a gag order she had placed on the parties.
Neither Beuth nor attorney Carol Menninger, who previously represented Kaufusi, responded to messages seeking comment for this story.
COMPLAINTS FILED
Barney and her lawyers, brother Tony and Lisa Rasmussen, filed an ethics complaint against Elliott with the Judicial Discipline Commission in June 2005. The complaint, which is confidential, is still pending.
"I think when the court fails to protect the child, it's really unforgiveable," Rasmussen said.
She said Elliott made a "snap decision" early in the case and refused to back down from it. The lawyer argued that Elliott "believed everything Kaufusi said, and she didn't ever believe anything that Tiffany said."
Elliott said no one from the discipline commission has interviewed her about the ethics complaint.
Barney argues that Elliott wanted to believe she was lying about the sexual abuse and, in turn, alienating her daughter from Kaufusi.
"It's easier to say it's not happening than to do a thorough investigation and find out that it is," Barney said.
She said Elliott "almost made it seem like parental alienation was worse than sexual abuse."
Elliott, who also is a licensed marriage and family therapist, said she doesn't think the two can be compared. "They each can uniquely damage a child very, very badly," she said.
Last year, Barney filed a lawsuit on her daughter's behalf against Slay, Holland and Tilman. Barney claims their negligence, combined with Elliott's bias in favor of Kaufusi, exposed her daughter to years of sexual assault.
Earlier this year, Barney filed a separate lawsuit against Kaufusi and Tilman. Judicial immunity prevented Barney from suing Elliott.
"Change has got to be made to protect the children in this court system," Barney said.
Holland declined to comment on Barney's lawsuit, which accused the psychologist of conducting a "substandard and invalid evaluation."
District Judge David Barker has dismissed the claims against Holland and Slay. Although Barney is appealing the judge's ruling regarding Slay, she dropped her claims against Holland in January.
Barney said the Nevada Supreme Court previously has ruled that court-appointed psychologists are immune from liability, but the high court never has granted that protection to polygraph examiners.
POLYGRAPH EXAMS DEFENDED
In her lawsuit, Barney claims Slay had a conflict of interest when he tested her after having tested Kaufusi "concerning the same legal issue." She also claims Slay's "compound and complex questions" caused her to fail the exam.
During a recent interview at Slay's Maryland Parkway office, where he has conducted thousands of polygraph exams over the past three decades, he discussed the first lawsuit he has faced in connection with his lie-detection work.
Slay said Barney seemed to understand the questions he asked, and he denied that his exams of both parents amounted to a conflict of interest.
"I've done both sides many times," he said.
Sometimes both sides pass their tests, Slay said, and sometimes they both fail.
"It doesn't occur to me even remotely that having done the first test and reached a decision should in any way influence the decision of the test I'm about to do," he said.
Nevertheless, Slay said, when Barney arrived for her polygraph, he did not know about her connection to Kaufusi. Slay said Barney informed him that he had tested her ex-husband.
"She told me the outcome of his test," said Slay, who defended the validity of the results from both exams.
Barney said she had no idea Slay had previously tested Kaufusi.
According to the lawsuit, Kaufusi was ordered to take another polygraph exam with a different examiner in July 2005, and he failed that test.
A DAUGHTER RECOVERS
Barney said her daughter, who recently turned 9, is doing "remarkably well" now but still fears her father will return.
"I think she thinks I can't protect her, and that's her fear, her big fear," Barney said. "And maybe I can't."
The two live in a guest house behind the home of Barney's parents in northwest Las Vegas.
Barney gives credit to God for the "little miracles" that happened in her case. "I think the Lord was watching out for my daughter," she said. "I think he wanted her to have a good life."
Barney, who still carries the guilt of forcing her daughter to visit Kaufusi for so many years, said everyone has their trials to endure. She believes the hardships she and her daughter have faced will make both of them appreciate goodness.
Barney also believes her daughter's experience will make her a positive force for other abused children.
"I truly believe that, and I think that's why she was saved," Barney said.
On a recent afternoon, Barney's daughter chomped on bubble gum while showing a visitor her collection of Webkinz stuffed animals. She also played some of the songs she has mastered on the piano. She told stories and frequently laughed.
Asked how she felt about her father, she paused and answered softly:
"I'm happy that he's gone. I feel more safe."
Contact reporter Carri Geer Thevenot at cgeer@reviewjournal.com or 702-380-8135.
Ruling debunks custody diagnosis
Despite the fact that Parental Alienation Syndrome is not a valid syndrome or a valid psychiatric diagnosis, unethical mental health professionals attempt to circumvent this fact by using the same theory, yet call it by other names such as "subtle", "covert" or "overt" alienation, or malicious mother syndrome, or lying litigant syndrome or hostile aggressive parenting, etc. The fancy names are only limited by the unethical psychologist's imagination. As the only thing these so-called professionals spout is baseless rhetoric, an effort needs to be made to expose this fraud. The only information that should effect decision making is REAL evidence, not made up hypothesis that are not scientifically valid. Making up a fictitious syndrome or type of disorder is a form of disease mongering. This is a favorite activity of the pharmaceutical and mental health industry. Check out the disease mongering engine and you too can make up your own syndrome. It sounds real, but is a load of crap.
Article from: The Australian
Tony Koch April 07, 2008
CHILD custody determinations in scores of Family Court decisions could be challenged following a ruling debunking parental alienation syndrome, a controversial diagnosis of the effects on a child when one parent denigrates the other.
The Psychologists Board of Queensland last month disciplined prominent Brisbane clinical psychologist William Wrigley, saying he had acted unprofessionally in giving evidence about parental alienation syndrome to the court.
An investigation found that Dr Wrigley's evidence three years ago, which had led to a mother losing custody of her two children, constituted "professional conduct that demonstrates incompetence or a lack of adequate knowledge, skill, judgment or care".
The Australian understands that Dr Wrigley has identified the syndrome as a factor in other cases to the Family Court. So have psychologists and psychiatrists throughout Australia.
The syndrome was diagnosed in 1985 by US clinical psychiatrist Richard Gardner, an advocate of a father's right to custody, even in cases where he had been accused of abuse. He argued that some parents who criticise other parents or step-parents in front of children were guilty of psychological abuse. Dr Gardner's theories remain highly controversial among psychiatrists, psychologists and therapists, who claim they are simplistic or erroneous.
The complaint was lodged by the Brisbane mother who lost custody of her two children in 2005 when Family Court judge Neil Buckley determined, acknowledging the evidence of Dr Wrigley, that she had affected the children with the syndrome.
Justice Buckley said Dr Wrigley's reports provided a "comprehensive and balanced assessment" of all relevant issues.
"It has to be said that in terms of objectivity, professionalism, fairness and balance, his reports are in stark contrast to those provided by (other professionals)," he said.
The board advised Dr Wrigley on March 3 of its unanimous decision that he had "acted in a way that constituted unsatisfactory conduct" for "referring to an unrecognised syndrome in his reports".
"It was inappropriate for the registrant (Dr Wrigley) to either diagnose the children or state there was a likelihood the children could develop parental alienation syndrome, as it is not a recognised syndrome," it said.
"To diagnose a patient as suffering from or demonstrating a potential to develop an unrecognised syndrome is contrary to the code of ethics."
However, the board advised that details of the disciplinary action not be recorded on the public register because it was "not within the public interest".
The board told The Australian it was precluded by law from commenting on the disciplinary action taken against Dr Wrigley.
Family Court Chief Justice Diana Bryant last year posted on the family law court website a "fact sheet" about the syndrome, which said the malady was used in evidence, but warned that it was not accepted as "a psychiatric disease".
Chief Justice Bryant's notice cited several cases "where PAS has been rejected or not accepted as a concept".
The cited cases, with names excluded, included the controversial matter for which Dr Wrigley was disciplined by the psychologists board.
Article from: The Australian
Tony Koch April 07, 2008
CHILD custody determinations in scores of Family Court decisions could be challenged following a ruling debunking parental alienation syndrome, a controversial diagnosis of the effects on a child when one parent denigrates the other.
The Psychologists Board of Queensland last month disciplined prominent Brisbane clinical psychologist William Wrigley, saying he had acted unprofessionally in giving evidence about parental alienation syndrome to the court.
An investigation found that Dr Wrigley's evidence three years ago, which had led to a mother losing custody of her two children, constituted "professional conduct that demonstrates incompetence or a lack of adequate knowledge, skill, judgment or care".
The Australian understands that Dr Wrigley has identified the syndrome as a factor in other cases to the Family Court. So have psychologists and psychiatrists throughout Australia.
The syndrome was diagnosed in 1985 by US clinical psychiatrist Richard Gardner, an advocate of a father's right to custody, even in cases where he had been accused of abuse. He argued that some parents who criticise other parents or step-parents in front of children were guilty of psychological abuse. Dr Gardner's theories remain highly controversial among psychiatrists, psychologists and therapists, who claim they are simplistic or erroneous.
The complaint was lodged by the Brisbane mother who lost custody of her two children in 2005 when Family Court judge Neil Buckley determined, acknowledging the evidence of Dr Wrigley, that she had affected the children with the syndrome.
Justice Buckley said Dr Wrigley's reports provided a "comprehensive and balanced assessment" of all relevant issues.
"It has to be said that in terms of objectivity, professionalism, fairness and balance, his reports are in stark contrast to those provided by (other professionals)," he said.
The board advised Dr Wrigley on March 3 of its unanimous decision that he had "acted in a way that constituted unsatisfactory conduct" for "referring to an unrecognised syndrome in his reports".
"It was inappropriate for the registrant (Dr Wrigley) to either diagnose the children or state there was a likelihood the children could develop parental alienation syndrome, as it is not a recognised syndrome," it said.
"To diagnose a patient as suffering from or demonstrating a potential to develop an unrecognised syndrome is contrary to the code of ethics."
However, the board advised that details of the disciplinary action not be recorded on the public register because it was "not within the public interest".
The board told The Australian it was precluded by law from commenting on the disciplinary action taken against Dr Wrigley.
Family Court Chief Justice Diana Bryant last year posted on the family law court website a "fact sheet" about the syndrome, which said the malady was used in evidence, but warned that it was not accepted as "a psychiatric disease".
Chief Justice Bryant's notice cited several cases "where PAS has been rejected or not accepted as a concept".
The cited cases, with names excluded, included the controversial matter for which Dr Wrigley was disciplined by the psychologists board.
Profiteering at the Rhode Island Family Court
Monday, January 14, 2008
Profiteering at the Rhode Island Family Court
The original version of this op-ed by Anne Grant appeared in the Providence Journal on Friday, March 9, 2007.
RHODE ISLAND’S chief justice, Frank Williams, objected to Governor Carcieri’s recent but since-dropped proposal to balance the budget by shutting down the courts and other state operations on four generally slow days. Williams cites a section of the Rhode Island Constitution that guarantees the right to a speedy trial, insisting this “cannot and should not be abrogated by monetary interests” (“Top judge balks at days off,” Feb. 14, 2007, p. A-1 ff.).Tell this to families devastated from decades of looting by Family Court lawyers, guardians ad litem, and mental-health professionals who drag out domestic cases that promise them a stream of income through frivolous litigation and strategic delays. While the majority of those in Family Court may not be looters, few would deny that some of their colleagues unethically exploit human crises to enrich themselves. Among the many children I’ve followed are three whose 18th birthdays are finally emancipating them. Family Court had removed all three from protective mothers who were victims of domestic violence or rape. These children endured years of abuse by fathers intent on punishing women who had rejected them. One youth was abandoned by the abusive parent; the other two rebelled. Feelings of rage overwhelm them like a riptide. Family Court subjected them to endless crises and false charges. Judges labeled them “manipulative” before returning them, damaged, to their mothers. The first time I asked Family Court Chief Judge Jeremiah Jeremiah in 1993 about problems that battered mothers encountered while trying to protect their children in his court, he said amiably that it’s all political anyway. He saw no problem in the fact that psychologists favor whichever parent pays them. Am I naïve to think this system should rely on rules of evidence and merits of a case rather than money? Are these children not entitled to speedy justice?Chief Jeremiah’s direct involvement in many of these cases along with his former tenants and political associates suggest significant conflicts of interest. His assistant David Tassoni, mediating one of the cases, determined that the father should pay only $200 a month child support. This locked the man’s two teenagers in poverty while their mother worked menial jobs day and night. Cranston records for 2004 show the same father, a licensed real-estate agent, giving his house to an older son by his first wife. She had been director of counseling at a Rhode Island college 25 years ago when she called campus security and police, saying that he had taken their baby and threatened to kill her. According to her affidavit, he menaced her colleagues, too, telling her: “When I get through with you, you won’t have a job and neither will they, if you live that long.” When a judge found him in contempt for failure to pay her child support in 1995, he had already faced abuse charges and three years of litigation with his second wife. The second case dragged through 11 Family Court judges by 2002, when Judge Howard Lipsey said: “I feel [this father] is abusing the court system for his own purposes . . . taking advantage of his children . . . of his oldest son . . . of his former wife. I think he is really devious. I think he has no desire to really look into the best interest of the . . . children. And if anyone is causing pain to these children and not allowing them to re-establish a relationship . . . it is he who is doing it.”Judge Lipsey returned the children to their mother after they had been psychologically devastated by twenty-nine months with this abusive father. Then Lipsey did something astonishing that revealed the unrelenting cat-and-mouse game at Family Court. Saying he was no longer unbiased, he recused himself from any further decisions on it, including child support, and sent the case to a 12th judge, where Tassoni weighed in as mediator.Many younger children have already replaced the three who are turning 18. People in Little Compton packed their community center last year after the court removed two young sisters from their mother when the girls complained about things they said their father had done to them.The father paid for a psychological evaluation blaming the mother. The court ordered her to pay tens of thousands of dollars for mental-health professionals and a guardian ad litem, while she seldom sees her daughters. Elderly grandparents and friends struggled to raise a six-digit sum for an out-of-state lawyer, who has fought similar cases in 44 states. If he gets to argue this case, it could set a historic precedent for Rhode Island children.The General Assembly has dodged this problem. One-quarter of its members are lawyers, many of whom practice in Family Court. Lawyers dominate both chambers’ Judiciary Committees. The U.S. attorney says he cannot step in: This is a state matter. The real question is not whether we should close court for four days, but whether we will continue to deny justice for 18 years while professionals in Family Court profiteer off children in crisis.
Posted by Parenting Project at Monday, January 14, 2008
Profiteering at the Rhode Island Family Court
The original version of this op-ed by Anne Grant appeared in the Providence Journal on Friday, March 9, 2007.
RHODE ISLAND’S chief justice, Frank Williams, objected to Governor Carcieri’s recent but since-dropped proposal to balance the budget by shutting down the courts and other state operations on four generally slow days. Williams cites a section of the Rhode Island Constitution that guarantees the right to a speedy trial, insisting this “cannot and should not be abrogated by monetary interests” (“Top judge balks at days off,” Feb. 14, 2007, p. A-1 ff.).Tell this to families devastated from decades of looting by Family Court lawyers, guardians ad litem, and mental-health professionals who drag out domestic cases that promise them a stream of income through frivolous litigation and strategic delays. While the majority of those in Family Court may not be looters, few would deny that some of their colleagues unethically exploit human crises to enrich themselves. Among the many children I’ve followed are three whose 18th birthdays are finally emancipating them. Family Court had removed all three from protective mothers who were victims of domestic violence or rape. These children endured years of abuse by fathers intent on punishing women who had rejected them. One youth was abandoned by the abusive parent; the other two rebelled. Feelings of rage overwhelm them like a riptide. Family Court subjected them to endless crises and false charges. Judges labeled them “manipulative” before returning them, damaged, to their mothers. The first time I asked Family Court Chief Judge Jeremiah Jeremiah in 1993 about problems that battered mothers encountered while trying to protect their children in his court, he said amiably that it’s all political anyway. He saw no problem in the fact that psychologists favor whichever parent pays them. Am I naïve to think this system should rely on rules of evidence and merits of a case rather than money? Are these children not entitled to speedy justice?Chief Jeremiah’s direct involvement in many of these cases along with his former tenants and political associates suggest significant conflicts of interest. His assistant David Tassoni, mediating one of the cases, determined that the father should pay only $200 a month child support. This locked the man’s two teenagers in poverty while their mother worked menial jobs day and night. Cranston records for 2004 show the same father, a licensed real-estate agent, giving his house to an older son by his first wife. She had been director of counseling at a Rhode Island college 25 years ago when she called campus security and police, saying that he had taken their baby and threatened to kill her. According to her affidavit, he menaced her colleagues, too, telling her: “When I get through with you, you won’t have a job and neither will they, if you live that long.” When a judge found him in contempt for failure to pay her child support in 1995, he had already faced abuse charges and three years of litigation with his second wife. The second case dragged through 11 Family Court judges by 2002, when Judge Howard Lipsey said: “I feel [this father] is abusing the court system for his own purposes . . . taking advantage of his children . . . of his oldest son . . . of his former wife. I think he is really devious. I think he has no desire to really look into the best interest of the . . . children. And if anyone is causing pain to these children and not allowing them to re-establish a relationship . . . it is he who is doing it.”Judge Lipsey returned the children to their mother after they had been psychologically devastated by twenty-nine months with this abusive father. Then Lipsey did something astonishing that revealed the unrelenting cat-and-mouse game at Family Court. Saying he was no longer unbiased, he recused himself from any further decisions on it, including child support, and sent the case to a 12th judge, where Tassoni weighed in as mediator.Many younger children have already replaced the three who are turning 18. People in Little Compton packed their community center last year after the court removed two young sisters from their mother when the girls complained about things they said their father had done to them.The father paid for a psychological evaluation blaming the mother. The court ordered her to pay tens of thousands of dollars for mental-health professionals and a guardian ad litem, while she seldom sees her daughters. Elderly grandparents and friends struggled to raise a six-digit sum for an out-of-state lawyer, who has fought similar cases in 44 states. If he gets to argue this case, it could set a historic precedent for Rhode Island children.The General Assembly has dodged this problem. One-quarter of its members are lawyers, many of whom practice in Family Court. Lawyers dominate both chambers’ Judiciary Committees. The U.S. attorney says he cannot step in: This is a state matter. The real question is not whether we should close court for four days, but whether we will continue to deny justice for 18 years while professionals in Family Court profiteer off children in crisis.
Posted by Parenting Project at Monday, January 14, 2008
Unlicensed Practice of Psychology by J. Michael Bone
Besides Richard Gardner, J. Michael Bone has done immeasurable harm to parents and children victimized by the fraudulent intentional custody change theories that lie at the core of the hypothetical theory of Parental Alienation and Parental Alienation Syndrome. The non-custodial parent is favored in every way. Any demand, any complaint by a non-custodial parent can be recast by these unethical psychologists as parental alienation. Just have a child who is abused who refused to visit the abuser, and the protective parent and victimized child will be patholized and vilified by these unethical so-called experts. Research published by both Bone and Gardner reflect their own viewpoints and own ideas. Others may have jumped on this money train to make endless amounts of highly profitable work to the detriment of the victims, but the ideas behind the theories lack evidence to substantiate them. This "lack of evidence" is the official statement by the APA on Parental Alienation Syndrome. But the APA does not seem to want to ever restrain any research and appears to do nothing in the way of discipline regarding far fetched theories, no matter how offensive. Just as in the Rind Study which required an act of congress to denounce it, Parental Alienation is based on pro-pedophilia ideas. One wonders why anyone would condone these studies unless they agreed with them.
J. Michael Bone advertises extensively, offering training, lecturing, consulting and has multiple websites pushing his parental alienation ideas. Upon further investigation though, J. Michael Bone is not a licensed mental health professional. It appears that his license was relinquished after multiple complaints regarding his evaluations. Disciplinary hearings were held in February of 2007. His license was relinquished after complaints were filed regarding failure to consider other theories or to follow ethical regulations.
Anyone forced to undergo parental alienation evaluations is forced under duress by court order to go to these crackpot psychologists who everyone knows repeatedly "diagnose" or more accurately stated, ACCUSE parental alienation. No custodial parent forced into any of these evaluations will ever be the same after having to fend off these phony accusations of hypothetical theories. Especially when the psychologist is able to just make this stuff up. These sham exams have no more validity than witchcraft accusations. They can claim that a behavior of a child is the result of something the custodial parent has done, but in REALITY there is no scientific way of ever proving this correlation with the accuracy required to make it provable by scientific standards. The theory summarily rejects any other possible causes for a child's behavior, other than it's always the fault of the custodial parent.
Children who complain of abuse and refuse visitation should be listened to as to what the problem is. Histories of domestic abuse and child abuse are very valid reasons for not wanting to endure forced relationships with the offending party!
J. Michael Bone advertises extensively, offering training, lecturing, consulting and has multiple websites pushing his parental alienation ideas. Upon further investigation though, J. Michael Bone is not a licensed mental health professional. It appears that his license was relinquished after multiple complaints regarding his evaluations. Disciplinary hearings were held in February of 2007. His license was relinquished after complaints were filed regarding failure to consider other theories or to follow ethical regulations.
Anyone forced to undergo parental alienation evaluations is forced under duress by court order to go to these crackpot psychologists who everyone knows repeatedly "diagnose" or more accurately stated, ACCUSE parental alienation. No custodial parent forced into any of these evaluations will ever be the same after having to fend off these phony accusations of hypothetical theories. Especially when the psychologist is able to just make this stuff up. These sham exams have no more validity than witchcraft accusations. They can claim that a behavior of a child is the result of something the custodial parent has done, but in REALITY there is no scientific way of ever proving this correlation with the accuracy required to make it provable by scientific standards. The theory summarily rejects any other possible causes for a child's behavior, other than it's always the fault of the custodial parent.
Children who complain of abuse and refuse visitation should be listened to as to what the problem is. Histories of domestic abuse and child abuse are very valid reasons for not wanting to endure forced relationships with the offending party!
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
The PAS Racket
Networks of lawyers, GALs, mediators, psychologists, therapists, parenting coordinators, et. al. collude and conspire in these Parental Alienation Fraud cases. The mother and children are attacked every step of the way. The GAL may ask to speak with the children. The GAL then calls in a child abuse report, intentionally, or this may be done in response to a domestic violence injunction. The GAL then calls in one or more of this network of therapists and evaluators to attack the mother and children from every angle. All accusing the victims while exonerating the perpetrator who pays hefty "legal bills" and "evaluation bills", basically buying visitation and/or custody in this racketeering fraud. It's like black market human trafficking with the appearance of legitimacy, all done with virtual immunity through the court system.
Here is one such brutal example that was overturned on appeal to Florida's 4th DCA. The guardian ad litem, Vicki Plant, has been involved in multiple cases using the same psychologists and same strategy to further victimize abused women and children. The therapist, Dahlia Biller has also worked with Vicki Plant on other cases using the same strategy. Vicki Plant racks up exorbitant bills and frequently files liens against her unfortunate victims as shown in Broward County Records. Also, involved in this vicious attack on the mother and children was Martha Jacobson as evaluator, and Jan Faust as undisclosed expert. Interestingly, Jan Faust owns a home with the judge on the case, Susan Greenhawt per Broward County Public Records book 44956, page 1035. This fraudulent custody change caused severe trauma to mother and children with one of the children having to be hospitalized. This sadistic group continued to inflict harm by blaming the mother and depriving the child of the mother's love and support.
The family continues to suffer as the children are under 18 and litigation continues.
IN THE DISTRICT COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF FLORIDA
FOURTH DISTRICT JANUARY TERM 2005
S.S. Appellant, v. P.S. Appellee.
CASE NO. 4D04-455
Opinion filed January 19, 2005
Appeal of a non-final order from the Circuit
Court for the Seventeenth Judicial Circuit,
Broward County; Susan F. Greenhawt, Judge;
L.T. Case No. FMCE 03-15749 3793.
Lynn G. Waxman of Lynn G. Waxman, P.A.,
West Palm Beach, Sari Teichman Addicott and
Michael L. Addicott of Addicott & Addicott,
P.A., Hollywood, for appellant.
Nancy W. Gregoire and Joel L. Kirschbaum of
Bunnell, Woulfe, Kirschbaum, Keller, McIntyre
& Gregoire, P.A., Fort Lauderdale, for appellee.
ON MOTION FOR REHEARING
PER CURIAM.
We grant the motion for rehearing, withdraw
the opinion issued on November 10, 2004, and
substitute the following.
Appellant, S.S., appeals from
the non-final Order on Temporary Injunction for
Protection Against Domestic Violence and Other
Temporary Relief. She argues that she was
deprived of due process at the hearing because,
contrary to Florida Family Law Rule of
Procedure 12.363(b)(1) (2003), the trial court
permitted the use of the custody evaluation
psychological report which was completed and
delivered to appellant’s counsel the day before
the hearing. We agree and reverse.
Pursuant to section 741.30, Florida Statutes
(2003), the trial court held a hearing on the
temporary injunction for protection against
domestic violence issued against appellee and
considered the issue of custody of the children
of the parties. Two months before the hearing a
custody evaluator was appointed. On Sunday,
the day before the hearing, which had been
continued twice, the report was completed and
delivered to the parties’ attorneys. The report
was thirty-five pages single-spaced and
recommended that the children be removed from
appellant’s custody due to the severe alienation
of the children by their mother (appellant) from
their father. Finding that the circumstances
amounted to an emergency, the trial court, over
the repeated objections of appellant that she
needed more time to prepare, permitted the
testimony of the psychologist, which was based
upon the report.
We find that the circumstances of this case do
not rise to the level of the extraordinary
circumstances required to find a true emergency
as held in Stanley-Baker v. Baker, 789 So. 2d
353, 355 (Fla. 4th DCA 2001). Thus, the trial
court’s decision to permit the testimony of the
psychologist that was based upon her report,
which was received by appellant the day before
the hearing, was an abuse of discretion and
deprived appe llant of procedural due process.
See Crifaci v. Crifaci, 626 So. 2d 287, 288 (Fla.
4th DCA 1993).
REVERSED AND REMANDED FOR
FURTHER PROCEEDINGS.
GUNTHER, TAYLOR and HAZOURI, JJ.,
concur.
Here is one such brutal example that was overturned on appeal to Florida's 4th DCA. The guardian ad litem, Vicki Plant, has been involved in multiple cases using the same psychologists and same strategy to further victimize abused women and children. The therapist, Dahlia Biller has also worked with Vicki Plant on other cases using the same strategy. Vicki Plant racks up exorbitant bills and frequently files liens against her unfortunate victims as shown in Broward County Records. Also, involved in this vicious attack on the mother and children was Martha Jacobson as evaluator, and Jan Faust as undisclosed expert. Interestingly, Jan Faust owns a home with the judge on the case, Susan Greenhawt per Broward County Public Records book 44956, page 1035. This fraudulent custody change caused severe trauma to mother and children with one of the children having to be hospitalized. This sadistic group continued to inflict harm by blaming the mother and depriving the child of the mother's love and support.
The family continues to suffer as the children are under 18 and litigation continues.
IN THE DISTRICT COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF FLORIDA
FOURTH DISTRICT JANUARY TERM 2005
S.S. Appellant, v. P.S. Appellee.
CASE NO. 4D04-455
Opinion filed January 19, 2005
Appeal of a non-final order from the Circuit
Court for the Seventeenth Judicial Circuit,
Broward County; Susan F. Greenhawt, Judge;
L.T. Case No. FMCE 03-15749 3793.
Lynn G. Waxman of Lynn G. Waxman, P.A.,
West Palm Beach, Sari Teichman Addicott and
Michael L. Addicott of Addicott & Addicott,
P.A., Hollywood, for appellant.
Nancy W. Gregoire and Joel L. Kirschbaum of
Bunnell, Woulfe, Kirschbaum, Keller, McIntyre
& Gregoire, P.A., Fort Lauderdale, for appellee.
ON MOTION FOR REHEARING
PER CURIAM.
We grant the motion for rehearing, withdraw
the opinion issued on November 10, 2004, and
substitute the following.
Appellant, S.S., appeals from
the non-final Order on Temporary Injunction for
Protection Against Domestic Violence and Other
Temporary Relief. She argues that she was
deprived of due process at the hearing because,
contrary to Florida Family Law Rule of
Procedure 12.363(b)(1) (2003), the trial court
permitted the use of the custody evaluation
psychological report which was completed and
delivered to appellant’s counsel the day before
the hearing. We agree and reverse.
Pursuant to section 741.30, Florida Statutes
(2003), the trial court held a hearing on the
temporary injunction for protection against
domestic violence issued against appellee and
considered the issue of custody of the children
of the parties. Two months before the hearing a
custody evaluator was appointed. On Sunday,
the day before the hearing, which had been
continued twice, the report was completed and
delivered to the parties’ attorneys. The report
was thirty-five pages single-spaced and
recommended that the children be removed from
appellant’s custody due to the severe alienation
of the children by their mother (appellant) from
their father. Finding that the circumstances
amounted to an emergency, the trial court, over
the repeated objections of appellant that she
needed more time to prepare, permitted the
testimony of the psychologist, which was based
upon the report.
We find that the circumstances of this case do
not rise to the level of the extraordinary
circumstances required to find a true emergency
as held in Stanley-Baker v. Baker, 789 So. 2d
353, 355 (Fla. 4th DCA 2001). Thus, the trial
court’s decision to permit the testimony of the
psychologist that was based upon her report,
which was received by appellant the day before
the hearing, was an abuse of discretion and
deprived appe llant of procedural due process.
See Crifaci v. Crifaci, 626 So. 2d 287, 288 (Fla.
4th DCA 1993).
REVERSED AND REMANDED FOR
FURTHER PROCEEDINGS.
GUNTHER, TAYLOR and HAZOURI, JJ.,
concur.
Catchphrase that convicts overanxious mothers
Parental Alienation is the current scam of the times in family court. A similar fraud occurs when mothers are falsely accused of Munchausen’s syndrome by proxy. This article originally published in November of 2006 in the Times Online of the UK illustrates how accusing a mother of a syndrome with a fancy sounding name can be so devastating. Just like with the parental alienation fraud, no evidence is needed, just an unethical mental health professional making the pronouncement is enough to cost a mother her children. Generally in family court, these false accusations of fictitious syndromes are used to facilitate a fraudulent custody change. The world need to be aware of the unethical people working in the mental health professions who use these made up names to take children away from fit parents to give to abusive ones who generally pay large amounts of money to pull off this custody scam in collusion with lawyers, GALs, mediators, and other bottomfeeders.
Originally posted November 7, 2006
Catchphrase that convicts overanxious mothers
By John Batt
Parents are being destroyed by a syndrome that does not existTHE presumption of innocence is a cornerstone of the rule of law. You cannot be convicted without trial. Or can you?A denial can never be a confession, can it? Without a trial you can’t be dragged from your home before dawn, in 21st-century Britain, never to be seen again — or can you?
Munchausen’s syndrome by proxy (MSbP, but now called fabricated or induced illness) is diagnosed when an adult — usually the mother — fabricates symptoms of sickness in a child to draw attention to herself. One can imagine a woman with mental problems doing it, but the idea that thousands of mothers are at it is surely barking mad. In America 1,200 cases are officially recorded every year. If it is a proper diagnosis why is it not listed in the World Health Organisation’s international statistical classification of diseases and related health problems?
Munchausen’s began life in 1951 as a catchphrase for an overanxious mother, phantom-suffering her child’s pain. In 1977 a clever paediatrician, Dr — now Professor Sir Roy — Meadow mutated it to describe two healthy children whose mothers had fabricated their illnesses. It made his name. He thought it rare. It provoked controversy, not least because a mother’s denial was proof of MSbP. Two questions demanded answers: what exactly was it and how prevalent? The Government’s Griffiths inquiry recommended “an expert and multidisciplinary panel to review methods of identification”. A working party with only two doctors on it, neither a paediatrician, focused not on identification, but on how to translate suspicion of it into proof. Confirmation duly came to pass. The guidelines of the working party were validated.
Since then, hundreds have claimed irreparable damage to their families by false allegations of MSbP For years the incidence of violent abuse of children has fallen consistently; by more than 50 per cent since 1996. Yet in response to just one case — the horrifying killing of Victoria Climbié, who was let down by social and medical services — the Government is creating the Children’s Index containing explicit details of every child from every source. Such a pharmacy of intimate information could provide many more MSbP prescriptions with tragic outcomes.
Any of the following may put a mother in the MSbP “frame”: if the doctor can find nothing wrong with the child; if tests are negative; if mum demands other opinions; if she has an “unhealthy” interest in things medical; if she exaggerates the child’s condition; and, of course, if she denies making it all up. For the health service, MSbP is a cheap solution to difficult cases. Some doctors call it a sexy diagnosis.
In Medical Hypotheses, a respected American journal, Dr Virginia Sherr reports many cases of Lyme disease — notoriously difficult to diagnose — treated as MSbP, with, sometimes, fatal consequences for the child. In the BMJ, Charles Pragnell, a former social worker, cites many stigmatised parents refusing to seek treatment for their sick children for fear of child abuse allegations; one doctor diagnosed MSbP 258 times.
The medical establishment justifies MSbP because many mothers have confessed to it. Would any innocent mother say that she had abused her child when she hadn’t? Commonly, a social worker, psychologist or paediatrician will say: “If you deny it you will never see Sandra again; if you admit it, you will keep her and receive treatment for your condition.” Mother and her partner may agonise but the loss of their daughter is unthinkable. So “Sandra’s” mum “confesses”. And that probably guarantees that they will never be a family again. And the “confession” goes into the statistics; another “joker” in the MSbP house of cards.
Accused, a BBC Two documentary, told the shocking story of a mob-handed, dawn raid in the Scottish island of South Ronaldsay, in 1988, when nine terrified children were forcibly torn from their parents on a social services’ fantasy that they had been subjected to ritual satanic abuse. A family court judge quickly rubbished the “prosecution” and sent the children home. The social workers involved are, 17 years later, unrepentant, convinced that the denials — by all the children and their parents — prove the abuse took place. Welcome to the witches’ drowning pool.
What should be done? The Children’s Index should be scrapped. Such a police state measure could multiply miscarriages of justice. Judges should throw out expert evidence based on MSbP, citing the judgment of the Queensland (Australia) Court of Appeal, in 2004, that “it does not form part of a recognised reliable body of medical knowledge”. The medical establishment should tell all doctors that MSbP is not a medical condition. When a doctor or social worker is convinced that a mother is pretending that her child is ill when it is not, she should be charged with child abuse in a court of law. If the evidence warrants it she will be “convicted” and any children considered for a care order. If the evidence is not there, the mother is presumed innocent.
The author is a solicitor and writer. Stolen Innocence, his story of Sally Clark, is published by Ebury Press
Originally posted November 7, 2006
Catchphrase that convicts overanxious mothers
By John Batt
Parents are being destroyed by a syndrome that does not existTHE presumption of innocence is a cornerstone of the rule of law. You cannot be convicted without trial. Or can you?A denial can never be a confession, can it? Without a trial you can’t be dragged from your home before dawn, in 21st-century Britain, never to be seen again — or can you?
Munchausen’s syndrome by proxy (MSbP, but now called fabricated or induced illness) is diagnosed when an adult — usually the mother — fabricates symptoms of sickness in a child to draw attention to herself. One can imagine a woman with mental problems doing it, but the idea that thousands of mothers are at it is surely barking mad. In America 1,200 cases are officially recorded every year. If it is a proper diagnosis why is it not listed in the World Health Organisation’s international statistical classification of diseases and related health problems?
Munchausen’s began life in 1951 as a catchphrase for an overanxious mother, phantom-suffering her child’s pain. In 1977 a clever paediatrician, Dr — now Professor Sir Roy — Meadow mutated it to describe two healthy children whose mothers had fabricated their illnesses. It made his name. He thought it rare. It provoked controversy, not least because a mother’s denial was proof of MSbP. Two questions demanded answers: what exactly was it and how prevalent? The Government’s Griffiths inquiry recommended “an expert and multidisciplinary panel to review methods of identification”. A working party with only two doctors on it, neither a paediatrician, focused not on identification, but on how to translate suspicion of it into proof. Confirmation duly came to pass. The guidelines of the working party were validated.
Since then, hundreds have claimed irreparable damage to their families by false allegations of MSbP For years the incidence of violent abuse of children has fallen consistently; by more than 50 per cent since 1996. Yet in response to just one case — the horrifying killing of Victoria Climbié, who was let down by social and medical services — the Government is creating the Children’s Index containing explicit details of every child from every source. Such a pharmacy of intimate information could provide many more MSbP prescriptions with tragic outcomes.
Any of the following may put a mother in the MSbP “frame”: if the doctor can find nothing wrong with the child; if tests are negative; if mum demands other opinions; if she has an “unhealthy” interest in things medical; if she exaggerates the child’s condition; and, of course, if she denies making it all up. For the health service, MSbP is a cheap solution to difficult cases. Some doctors call it a sexy diagnosis.
In Medical Hypotheses, a respected American journal, Dr Virginia Sherr reports many cases of Lyme disease — notoriously difficult to diagnose — treated as MSbP, with, sometimes, fatal consequences for the child. In the BMJ, Charles Pragnell, a former social worker, cites many stigmatised parents refusing to seek treatment for their sick children for fear of child abuse allegations; one doctor diagnosed MSbP 258 times.
The medical establishment justifies MSbP because many mothers have confessed to it. Would any innocent mother say that she had abused her child when she hadn’t? Commonly, a social worker, psychologist or paediatrician will say: “If you deny it you will never see Sandra again; if you admit it, you will keep her and receive treatment for your condition.” Mother and her partner may agonise but the loss of their daughter is unthinkable. So “Sandra’s” mum “confesses”. And that probably guarantees that they will never be a family again. And the “confession” goes into the statistics; another “joker” in the MSbP house of cards.
Accused, a BBC Two documentary, told the shocking story of a mob-handed, dawn raid in the Scottish island of South Ronaldsay, in 1988, when nine terrified children were forcibly torn from their parents on a social services’ fantasy that they had been subjected to ritual satanic abuse. A family court judge quickly rubbished the “prosecution” and sent the children home. The social workers involved are, 17 years later, unrepentant, convinced that the denials — by all the children and their parents — prove the abuse took place. Welcome to the witches’ drowning pool.
What should be done? The Children’s Index should be scrapped. Such a police state measure could multiply miscarriages of justice. Judges should throw out expert evidence based on MSbP, citing the judgment of the Queensland (Australia) Court of Appeal, in 2004, that “it does not form part of a recognised reliable body of medical knowledge”. The medical establishment should tell all doctors that MSbP is not a medical condition. When a doctor or social worker is convinced that a mother is pretending that her child is ill when it is not, she should be charged with child abuse in a court of law. If the evidence warrants it she will be “convicted” and any children considered for a care order. If the evidence is not there, the mother is presumed innocent.
The author is a solicitor and writer. Stolen Innocence, his story of Sally Clark, is published by Ebury Press
Doctor Saw Paranoia Before Fire
I do believe that this doctor understates the risks of domestic violence. Not only is he negligent about protecting victims of family abuse, but this doctor also accuses domestic violence victims of parental alienation, but tries to disguise the accusations as "covert" or "subtle" alienation. His evaluations have not only resulted in the deaths of these two children, but have resulted in abused mothers and children being re-victimized in court.
Doctor Saw Paranoia Before Fire
BYLINE: DON JORDAN, Palm Beach Post Staff Writer
DATE: December 29, 2006
PUBLICATION: Palm Beach Post, The (FL)EDITION: CSECTION: A SECTIONPAGE: 1AMEMO: Ran all editions.
A man who killed himself and his two children when he set his suburban Lake Worth home ablaze last week seemed to be "a good parent" but had "extreme feelings of paranoia," said a psychologist who evaluated Tony Camacho and his family in April.Phil Heller, a Boca Raton child psychologist with expertise in clinical and forensic psychology, was appointed by the courts to conduct a series of interviews and psychological tests with each member of the family - Camacho, 39; his ex-wife, Jennie Carter, 37; and their children, Nelson, 10, and Crystal, 8 - to determine the best custody arrangement in the couple's impending divorce.
What he found in Camacho was a man who obsessively craved attention, was racked by stress and failed to compromise."He thought of the world as a very threatening place," Heller said Thursday. "He would only deal with rationality, not with his feelings."The April interviews offered a glimpse into the family's home life, where Camacho was the more active parent while Carter worked long hours.According to court statements, Carter worked as a technician. Camacho was self-employed and worked from home for Adjustable Comfort, which repairs adjustable beds, earning $33,000 a year.Carter could not be reached for comment.
"Camacho was a good parent," Heller said. "The kids were never harmed. He took the children to doctor's appointments."But when Heller asked the children, both said they would rather live with Carter. Nelson wanted to take care of his hardworking mom and be the man of the house. Crystal yearned for a female bond.Camacho resented the children's love for their mother, Heller said."They had a fondness for her that Tony would obscure," he said. "Tony couldn't handle it."Camacho constantly denigrated Carter in front of the children, and when Heller proposed joint custody on the condition that Camacho change his behavior, Camacho wasn't interested, Heller said. He wanted only full custody.Heller recommended that the courts grant Carter custody.
That's when the doctor said he saw the full extent of Camacho's obsessive behavior."He would not stop calling me," Heller said. "He always had something new to tell me. Nobody called obsessively like him."Camacho's emotional problems may have stemmed from a troubled childhood, Heller said. His father abandoned the family after divorcing his mother when he was 5. He grew up in poverty and was forced to quit high school and work to support his family, Heller said."He really had lifted himself up by his bootstraps," Heller said.
Heller never changed his recommendation, and on Dec. 13, the courts finalized the divorce. Camacho was ordered to leave the house on Fairview Street, west of Lake Worth , by Jan. 12 so Carter could move back with her children. She had been living nearby at her parents' home in Lake Worth .Camacho set the house on fire eight days after the ruling, Palm Beach County Sheriff's Office officials said. He died of smoke inhalation after stabbing Crystal in the back, severing her spine and leaving her paralyzed as the flames engulfed their home, according to the sheriff's office.The county medical examiner has not determined whether she died from the wounds or from smoke inhalation. Nelson died of smoke inhalation the next day.Heller said there may have been signs that Camacho could be violent - he was very stressed, he was obsessive, Carter alleged he had been abusive - but said the man took care of his children."I'm still going through my mind wondering why I didn't think he would kill," Heller said.
- don_jordan@pbpost.comIllustration: PHOTO (B&W)
Phil Heller: 'I'm still going through my mind wondering why I didn't think he would kill.'
Copyright (c) 2006 Palm Beach Newspapers, Inc.
Doctor Saw Paranoia Before Fire
BYLINE: DON JORDAN, Palm Beach Post Staff Writer
DATE: December 29, 2006
PUBLICATION: Palm Beach Post, The (FL)EDITION: CSECTION: A SECTIONPAGE: 1AMEMO: Ran all editions.
A man who killed himself and his two children when he set his suburban Lake Worth home ablaze last week seemed to be "a good parent" but had "extreme feelings of paranoia," said a psychologist who evaluated Tony Camacho and his family in April.Phil Heller, a Boca Raton child psychologist with expertise in clinical and forensic psychology, was appointed by the courts to conduct a series of interviews and psychological tests with each member of the family - Camacho, 39; his ex-wife, Jennie Carter, 37; and their children, Nelson, 10, and Crystal, 8 - to determine the best custody arrangement in the couple's impending divorce.
What he found in Camacho was a man who obsessively craved attention, was racked by stress and failed to compromise."He thought of the world as a very threatening place," Heller said Thursday. "He would only deal with rationality, not with his feelings."The April interviews offered a glimpse into the family's home life, where Camacho was the more active parent while Carter worked long hours.According to court statements, Carter worked as a technician. Camacho was self-employed and worked from home for Adjustable Comfort, which repairs adjustable beds, earning $33,000 a year.Carter could not be reached for comment.
"Camacho was a good parent," Heller said. "The kids were never harmed. He took the children to doctor's appointments."But when Heller asked the children, both said they would rather live with Carter. Nelson wanted to take care of his hardworking mom and be the man of the house. Crystal yearned for a female bond.Camacho resented the children's love for their mother, Heller said."They had a fondness for her that Tony would obscure," he said. "Tony couldn't handle it."Camacho constantly denigrated Carter in front of the children, and when Heller proposed joint custody on the condition that Camacho change his behavior, Camacho wasn't interested, Heller said. He wanted only full custody.Heller recommended that the courts grant Carter custody.
That's when the doctor said he saw the full extent of Camacho's obsessive behavior."He would not stop calling me," Heller said. "He always had something new to tell me. Nobody called obsessively like him."Camacho's emotional problems may have stemmed from a troubled childhood, Heller said. His father abandoned the family after divorcing his mother when he was 5. He grew up in poverty and was forced to quit high school and work to support his family, Heller said."He really had lifted himself up by his bootstraps," Heller said.
Heller never changed his recommendation, and on Dec. 13, the courts finalized the divorce. Camacho was ordered to leave the house on Fairview Street, west of Lake Worth , by Jan. 12 so Carter could move back with her children. She had been living nearby at her parents' home in Lake Worth .Camacho set the house on fire eight days after the ruling, Palm Beach County Sheriff's Office officials said. He died of smoke inhalation after stabbing Crystal in the back, severing her spine and leaving her paralyzed as the flames engulfed their home, according to the sheriff's office.The county medical examiner has not determined whether she died from the wounds or from smoke inhalation. Nelson died of smoke inhalation the next day.Heller said there may have been signs that Camacho could be violent - he was very stressed, he was obsessive, Carter alleged he had been abusive - but said the man took care of his children."I'm still going through my mind wondering why I didn't think he would kill," Heller said.
- don_jordan@pbpost.comIllustration: PHOTO (B&W)
Phil Heller: 'I'm still going through my mind wondering why I didn't think he would kill.'
Copyright (c) 2006 Palm Beach Newspapers, Inc.
Child psychiatrist who developed the theory of Parental Alienation Syndrome
Dr Richard A. Gardner
Originally posted
Saturday, 31 May 2003
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/obituaries/dr-richard-a-gardner-548246.html
In a contentious child custody dispute in the suburbs of Pittsburgh a few years ago, three teenage boys begged a family court judge not to force them to continue visits to their father because, they said, he was physically abusive towards them. Rather than believe the boys, the judge relied on the testimony of an expert witness retained by the father, a Columbia University professor of clinical psychiatry, Richard A. Gardner.
Richard Alan Gardner, psychiatrist: born New York 28 April 1931; MD 1956; twice married (one son, two daughters); died Tenafly, New Jersey 25 May 2003.
In a contentious child custody dispute in the suburbs of Pittsburgh a few years ago, three teenage boys begged a family court judge not to force them to continue visits to their father because, they said, he was physically abusive towards them. Rather than believe the boys, the judge relied on the testimony of an expert witness retained by the father, a Columbia University professor of clinical psychiatry, Richard A. Gardner.
Gardner insisted the boys were lying as a result of brainwashing by their mother and recommended something he called "threat therapy". Essentially, the Grieco boys were told they should be respectful and obedient on visits to their father and, if they were not, their mother would go to jail. Shortly afterwards, 16-year-old Nathan Grieco, the eldest of the brothers, hanged himself in his bedroom, leaving behind a diary in which he wrote that life had become an "endless torment". Both Gardner and the court were unrepentant even after the suicide, and it was only after an exposé in the local newspaper that custody arrangements for the two surviving boys were changed.
This "threat therapy" was part of a much broader theory of Gardner's known in family courts across the United States as "Parental Alienation Syndrome". The theory - one of the most insidious pieces of junk science to be given credence by US courts in recent years - holds that any mother who accuses her spouse of abusing the children is lying more or less by definition. She tells these lies to "alienate" the children from their father, a shocking abrogation of parental responsibility for which she deserves to lose all custody rights in favour of the alleged abuser.
This is not only tawdry logic, guaranteed from the outset to protect the interests of divorcing fathers, by far Gardner's most enthusiastic constituency, but it has also destroyed the lives of hundreds, maybe thousands, of American families over the past 15 years. In state after state, courts deferred to Gardner's academic credentials and put children in the custody of their alleged abuser, even in cases where police records, medical records and testimony by teachers and social workers supported the mother's accusations.
By now, the concept of "parental alienation" has entered case law and swayed thousands of disputes in which Gardner himself played no part. Yet it has no scientific basis whatsoever. It is not recognised by the American Psychiatric Association or any other professional body. The stream of books that Gardner produced on the subject from the late 1980s were all self-published, without the usual peer review process. His method for determining the reliability of sex abuse allegations was denounced by one noted domestic violence expert, Jon Conte of the University of Washington, as "probably the most unscientific piece of garbage I've seen in the field in all my time".
Nobody with experience of high-conflict divorce cases would deny that mothers, in some cases, make false allegations against their spouses. But Gardner went much further. He believed that 90 per cent of mothers were liars who "programmed" their children to repeat their lies, and never mind the corroborating evidence. He theorised that mothers alleging abuse were expressing, in disguised form, their own sexual inclinations towards their children.
And he suggested there was nothing much wrong with paedophilia, incestuous or not. "One of the steps that society must take to deal with the present hysteria is to 'come off it' and take a more realistic attitude toward paedophilic behaviour," he wrote in Sex Abuse Hysteria - Salem Witch Trials Revisited (1991). Paedophilia, he added, "is a widespread and accepted practice among literally billions of people". Asked once by an interviewer what a mother was supposed to do if her child complained of sexual abuse by the father, Gardner replied: "What would she say? Don't you say that about your father. If you do, I'll beat you."
It beggars belief that such a figure would be taken seriously by family court judges but, in an adversarial system where fathers often have more money to spend on divorce cases, Gardner's theories have proved remarkably persuasive. The journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry wrote in 1996 that a book of Gardner's, Protocols for the Sex-Abuse Evaluation, was "a recipe for finding allegations of sexual abuse false, under the guise of clinical and scientific objectivity. One suspects it will be a bestseller among defence attorneys." And so it has proved.
Gardner's work has created a generation of mothers and children scarred psychologically and, in many cases, physically by the court rulings he has influenced. In one of his earliest cases, a Maryland physicist he labelled a "parental alienator", unfit to retain custody of her children, was subsequently shot dead by her ex-husband. Still Gardner did not change his view that the wife was the true villain; her lies, he insisted, had made the husband temporarily psychotic.
Richard Gardner's background was surprisingly conventional. Born in the Bronx, New York, in 1931, he studied medicine and psychiatry at various prestigious New York universities, and served a stint as a US army psychiatrist in Germany. Appointed to the Division of Child Psychiatry at Columbia in 1963, where he became Clinical Professor of Psychiatry in 1983, he was respected for many years as an expert on childhood experience of divorce.
After he developed his Parental Alienation Syndrome in the 1980s, however, he and Columbia slowly distanced themselves from each other and he spent most of his time in private practice in New Jersey. Along the way, he also turned into an authentic American monster.
Andrew Gumbel
Originally posted
Saturday, 31 May 2003
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/obituaries/dr-richard-a-gardner-548246.html
In a contentious child custody dispute in the suburbs of Pittsburgh a few years ago, three teenage boys begged a family court judge not to force them to continue visits to their father because, they said, he was physically abusive towards them. Rather than believe the boys, the judge relied on the testimony of an expert witness retained by the father, a Columbia University professor of clinical psychiatry, Richard A. Gardner.
Richard Alan Gardner, psychiatrist: born New York 28 April 1931; MD 1956; twice married (one son, two daughters); died Tenafly, New Jersey 25 May 2003.
In a contentious child custody dispute in the suburbs of Pittsburgh a few years ago, three teenage boys begged a family court judge not to force them to continue visits to their father because, they said, he was physically abusive towards them. Rather than believe the boys, the judge relied on the testimony of an expert witness retained by the father, a Columbia University professor of clinical psychiatry, Richard A. Gardner.
Gardner insisted the boys were lying as a result of brainwashing by their mother and recommended something he called "threat therapy". Essentially, the Grieco boys were told they should be respectful and obedient on visits to their father and, if they were not, their mother would go to jail. Shortly afterwards, 16-year-old Nathan Grieco, the eldest of the brothers, hanged himself in his bedroom, leaving behind a diary in which he wrote that life had become an "endless torment". Both Gardner and the court were unrepentant even after the suicide, and it was only after an exposé in the local newspaper that custody arrangements for the two surviving boys were changed.
This "threat therapy" was part of a much broader theory of Gardner's known in family courts across the United States as "Parental Alienation Syndrome". The theory - one of the most insidious pieces of junk science to be given credence by US courts in recent years - holds that any mother who accuses her spouse of abusing the children is lying more or less by definition. She tells these lies to "alienate" the children from their father, a shocking abrogation of parental responsibility for which she deserves to lose all custody rights in favour of the alleged abuser.
This is not only tawdry logic, guaranteed from the outset to protect the interests of divorcing fathers, by far Gardner's most enthusiastic constituency, but it has also destroyed the lives of hundreds, maybe thousands, of American families over the past 15 years. In state after state, courts deferred to Gardner's academic credentials and put children in the custody of their alleged abuser, even in cases where police records, medical records and testimony by teachers and social workers supported the mother's accusations.
By now, the concept of "parental alienation" has entered case law and swayed thousands of disputes in which Gardner himself played no part. Yet it has no scientific basis whatsoever. It is not recognised by the American Psychiatric Association or any other professional body. The stream of books that Gardner produced on the subject from the late 1980s were all self-published, without the usual peer review process. His method for determining the reliability of sex abuse allegations was denounced by one noted domestic violence expert, Jon Conte of the University of Washington, as "probably the most unscientific piece of garbage I've seen in the field in all my time".
Nobody with experience of high-conflict divorce cases would deny that mothers, in some cases, make false allegations against their spouses. But Gardner went much further. He believed that 90 per cent of mothers were liars who "programmed" their children to repeat their lies, and never mind the corroborating evidence. He theorised that mothers alleging abuse were expressing, in disguised form, their own sexual inclinations towards their children.
And he suggested there was nothing much wrong with paedophilia, incestuous or not. "One of the steps that society must take to deal with the present hysteria is to 'come off it' and take a more realistic attitude toward paedophilic behaviour," he wrote in Sex Abuse Hysteria - Salem Witch Trials Revisited (1991). Paedophilia, he added, "is a widespread and accepted practice among literally billions of people". Asked once by an interviewer what a mother was supposed to do if her child complained of sexual abuse by the father, Gardner replied: "What would she say? Don't you say that about your father. If you do, I'll beat you."
It beggars belief that such a figure would be taken seriously by family court judges but, in an adversarial system where fathers often have more money to spend on divorce cases, Gardner's theories have proved remarkably persuasive. The journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry wrote in 1996 that a book of Gardner's, Protocols for the Sex-Abuse Evaluation, was "a recipe for finding allegations of sexual abuse false, under the guise of clinical and scientific objectivity. One suspects it will be a bestseller among defence attorneys." And so it has proved.
Gardner's work has created a generation of mothers and children scarred psychologically and, in many cases, physically by the court rulings he has influenced. In one of his earliest cases, a Maryland physicist he labelled a "parental alienator", unfit to retain custody of her children, was subsequently shot dead by her ex-husband. Still Gardner did not change his view that the wife was the true villain; her lies, he insisted, had made the husband temporarily psychotic.
Richard Gardner's background was surprisingly conventional. Born in the Bronx, New York, in 1931, he studied medicine and psychiatry at various prestigious New York universities, and served a stint as a US army psychiatrist in Germany. Appointed to the Division of Child Psychiatry at Columbia in 1963, where he became Clinical Professor of Psychiatry in 1983, he was respected for many years as an expert on childhood experience of divorce.
After he developed his Parental Alienation Syndrome in the 1980s, however, he and Columbia slowly distanced themselves from each other and he spent most of his time in private practice in New Jersey. Along the way, he also turned into an authentic American monster.
Andrew Gumbel
Psychotherapist lied about qualifications, board says
http://www.gazette.com/articles/hoffman_43971___article.html/psychologist_licensed.html
Psychotherapist lied about qualifications, board says
Comments 12 Recommended2
November 24, 2008 - 9:39 AM
DENNIS HUSPENI
THE GAZETTE
A Colorado Springs psychotherapist who for years has represented himself as a licensed psychologist - and been appointed by judges to conduct evaluations in numerous cases - has been suspended for lying about his qualifications.
Mark Hoffman was reprimanded Nov. 10 by the Colorado State Grievance Board, which said in its ruling that Hoffman had "provided substandard psychotherapy," "breached professional boundaries," "shared confidential information" and "used misleading advertising."
Hoffman declined comment Thursday other than to say, "I'm retired. I don't practice anymore."
His attorney, Denis Lane, did not return a call seeking comment.
For years, Hoffman has been appointed by 4th Judicial District judges to do evaluations in divorce cases and child custody cases. A number of attorneys and judges were surprised to learn Hoffman is not a licensed psychologist.
The Verizon Yellow Pages, under "licensed psychologists" has a listing for "Hoffman Mark H ED D." He advertised in a Colorado Bar Association publication that he was a "State Licensed Educational Psychologist #0166489," according to www.knowyourcourts.com. He presented himself numerous times as a "forensic psychologist," according to the Grievance Board order.
And he's told judges in open court he's a psychologist.
He's not.
A Colorado law states an "unlicensed psychotherapist may not in any way refer to himself with the words ‘psychologist' ‘psychology' or ‘psychological.'"
Mental health professionals don't have to be licensed psychologists to be appointed in divorce or custody cases, said 4th Judicial District Judge Robert Lowrey.
"They are all qualified, and they are of good benefit to the court," Lowrey said, without referring to Hoffman specifically. "They can go much more in depth than the court and learn more than we can ever possibly learn in a few hours of testimony. ... They have more time to ferret out the truth."
Kris Stewart, 51, of Colorado Springs made the complaint to the Grievance Board about Hoffman in 2005.
Stewart's wife left him and took his son and a divorce and custody case ensued.
The judge required Stewart and his wife to get psychological evaluations. So based on a word-of-mouth recommendation, Stewart hired Hoffman.
"He told me he could really help me if he was appointed my special advocate," Stewart said.
So he asked the judge to appoint Hoffman and also paid him more than $9,000.
When Hoffman made his recommendations to the judge, he included "a diatribe against me" and "manufactured things I supposedly did then said I confessed to them," Stewart said.
Stewart taped the sessions and was able to not only prove he didn't confess to those things, but that Hoffman made some strange sexually oriented statements to Stewart, he said.
"I was told that had I not recorded it, no one would have believed me," Stewart said.
He sent the recording to the Grievance Board and an investigation was launched.
To protect his son and former wife's privacy, Stewart did not provide details about the things in Hoffman's report to the court.
Hoffman was slapped with a six-month suspension, according to the Grievance Board, and is not to "engage in the practice of psychotherapy" and not "hold himself out as a psychologist."
If he decides to practice again after the suspension, he will be on probation, required to undergo counseling and enlist the use of a "practice monitor" to supervise his practice.
Stewart said he bears no ill will against Hoffman, but thought it was important others know what he was doing.
Even though Stewart lost custody of his son, that was not his motivation for making the complaint, he said.
"Victory was not sweet," Stewart said. "But there is satisfaction that a long effort finally bore fruit. I don't want him to be hurt. I just want him to stop hurting others."
Psychotherapist lied about qualifications, board says
Comments 12 Recommended2
November 24, 2008 - 9:39 AM
DENNIS HUSPENI
THE GAZETTE
A Colorado Springs psychotherapist who for years has represented himself as a licensed psychologist - and been appointed by judges to conduct evaluations in numerous cases - has been suspended for lying about his qualifications.
Mark Hoffman was reprimanded Nov. 10 by the Colorado State Grievance Board, which said in its ruling that Hoffman had "provided substandard psychotherapy," "breached professional boundaries," "shared confidential information" and "used misleading advertising."
Hoffman declined comment Thursday other than to say, "I'm retired. I don't practice anymore."
His attorney, Denis Lane, did not return a call seeking comment.
For years, Hoffman has been appointed by 4th Judicial District judges to do evaluations in divorce cases and child custody cases. A number of attorneys and judges were surprised to learn Hoffman is not a licensed psychologist.
The Verizon Yellow Pages, under "licensed psychologists" has a listing for "Hoffman Mark H ED D." He advertised in a Colorado Bar Association publication that he was a "State Licensed Educational Psychologist #0166489," according to www.knowyourcourts.com. He presented himself numerous times as a "forensic psychologist," according to the Grievance Board order.
And he's told judges in open court he's a psychologist.
He's not.
A Colorado law states an "unlicensed psychotherapist may not in any way refer to himself with the words ‘psychologist' ‘psychology' or ‘psychological.'"
Mental health professionals don't have to be licensed psychologists to be appointed in divorce or custody cases, said 4th Judicial District Judge Robert Lowrey.
"They are all qualified, and they are of good benefit to the court," Lowrey said, without referring to Hoffman specifically. "They can go much more in depth than the court and learn more than we can ever possibly learn in a few hours of testimony. ... They have more time to ferret out the truth."
Kris Stewart, 51, of Colorado Springs made the complaint to the Grievance Board about Hoffman in 2005.
Stewart's wife left him and took his son and a divorce and custody case ensued.
The judge required Stewart and his wife to get psychological evaluations. So based on a word-of-mouth recommendation, Stewart hired Hoffman.
"He told me he could really help me if he was appointed my special advocate," Stewart said.
So he asked the judge to appoint Hoffman and also paid him more than $9,000.
When Hoffman made his recommendations to the judge, he included "a diatribe against me" and "manufactured things I supposedly did then said I confessed to them," Stewart said.
Stewart taped the sessions and was able to not only prove he didn't confess to those things, but that Hoffman made some strange sexually oriented statements to Stewart, he said.
"I was told that had I not recorded it, no one would have believed me," Stewart said.
He sent the recording to the Grievance Board and an investigation was launched.
To protect his son and former wife's privacy, Stewart did not provide details about the things in Hoffman's report to the court.
Hoffman was slapped with a six-month suspension, according to the Grievance Board, and is not to "engage in the practice of psychotherapy" and not "hold himself out as a psychologist."
If he decides to practice again after the suspension, he will be on probation, required to undergo counseling and enlist the use of a "practice monitor" to supervise his practice.
Stewart said he bears no ill will against Hoffman, but thought it was important others know what he was doing.
Even though Stewart lost custody of his son, that was not his motivation for making the complaint, he said.
"Victory was not sweet," Stewart said. "But there is satisfaction that a long effort finally bore fruit. I don't want him to be hurt. I just want him to stop hurting others."
Monday, November 24, 2008
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IMPORTANT: The following audiovisual piece includes real-life interviews featuring disturbing verbal content and statements on child abuse and domestic violence. Viewer discretion is advised.]Prof. Garland Waller produced "Small Justice: Little Justice in America's Family Courts" which is an independent documentary that explores the relationship between domestic violence, child sexual abuse and custody laws in America. To learn more about the stories of the women seen in this 10 minute clip, please go to http://batteredmotherscustodyconferen...Jessie Beers Altman, a graduate student in the College of Communication, was in charge of editing this video.For more information of Boston University's Department of Film and Television at the College of Communication, visit: http://www.bu.edu/com/ft Category: EducationTags: Boston University College Communications Education Film Television
IMPORTANT: The following audiovisual piece includes real-life interviews featuring disturbing verbal content and statements on child abuse and domestic violence. Viewer discretion is advised.]Prof. Garland Waller produced "Small Justice: Little Justice in America's Family Courts" which is an independent documentary that explores the relationship between domestic violence, child sexual abuse and custody laws in America. To learn more about the stories of the women seen in this 10 minute clip, please go to http://batteredmotherscustodyconferen...Jessie Beers Altman, a graduate student in the College of Communication, was in charge of editing this video.For more information of Boston University's Department of Film and Television at the College of Communication, visit: http://www.bu.edu/com/ft Category: EducationTags: Boston University College Communications Education Film Television
Experts Challenge Alec Baldwin's Book
http://endabuse.org/newsflash/index.php3?Search=Article&NewsFlashID=1055
November 24, 2008
Domestic violence victim advocacy organizations are challenging actor Alec Baldwin’s new memoir, A Promise to Ourselves, which details his divorce and legal battle over custody. Baldwin claims that he was a victim of ‘parental alienation syndrome’ (PAS) – a controversial theory that argues that one parent, usually the father, is demonized at the hands of another parent, usually the mother, most often through false allegations of abuse. Baldwin is promoting his memoir with a book tour and a series of media interviews. The actor’s bitter custody battle became public knowledge in 2007 when someone leaked a voicemail Baldwin left for his then eleven-year-old daughter in which he called her a “rude, thoughtless little pig.” Baldwin received considerable criticism for the message, and now says he was emotionally and financially drained by the court system and had “snapped.” The media attention for Baldwin’s book has thrust the controversial PAS theory into the spotlight, and victim advocates are speaking out. “PAS was invented to defeat child abuse claims – and it has been remarkably successful in misleading family courts into believing that women who are sincerely trying to protect their children and themselves from abuse, are just seeking to end the children’s relationship with their noncustodial father,” said Domestic Violence Legal Empowerment and Appeals Project Executive Director Joan Meier. Advocates say that victims of violence tend to be the ones silenced when PAS is invoked, and that courts handling custody cases often do not understand the dynamics of domestic violence. “The most important factor judges should be weighing in making custody decisions is the safety of the mother and child, and the introduction of PAS overshadows this critical need for safety,” National Coalition Against Domestic Violence Executive Director Rita Smith said. ‘Parental alienation syndrome’ is not recognized by any professional association and has been rejected by the Presidential Task Force of the American Psychological Association and the National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges.
November 24, 2008
Domestic violence victim advocacy organizations are challenging actor Alec Baldwin’s new memoir, A Promise to Ourselves, which details his divorce and legal battle over custody. Baldwin claims that he was a victim of ‘parental alienation syndrome’ (PAS) – a controversial theory that argues that one parent, usually the father, is demonized at the hands of another parent, usually the mother, most often through false allegations of abuse. Baldwin is promoting his memoir with a book tour and a series of media interviews. The actor’s bitter custody battle became public knowledge in 2007 when someone leaked a voicemail Baldwin left for his then eleven-year-old daughter in which he called her a “rude, thoughtless little pig.” Baldwin received considerable criticism for the message, and now says he was emotionally and financially drained by the court system and had “snapped.” The media attention for Baldwin’s book has thrust the controversial PAS theory into the spotlight, and victim advocates are speaking out. “PAS was invented to defeat child abuse claims – and it has been remarkably successful in misleading family courts into believing that women who are sincerely trying to protect their children and themselves from abuse, are just seeking to end the children’s relationship with their noncustodial father,” said Domestic Violence Legal Empowerment and Appeals Project Executive Director Joan Meier. Advocates say that victims of violence tend to be the ones silenced when PAS is invoked, and that courts handling custody cases often do not understand the dynamics of domestic violence. “The most important factor judges should be weighing in making custody decisions is the safety of the mother and child, and the introduction of PAS overshadows this critical need for safety,” National Coalition Against Domestic Violence Executive Director Rita Smith said. ‘Parental alienation syndrome’ is not recognized by any professional association and has been rejected by the Presidential Task Force of the American Psychological Association and the National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges.
The True Abuse/False Alienation Scam
by Katie Stanton
There are false allegations of fictitious syndromes going on all over the country and around the world. Horrifically abusive men, armed with lots of money, use false allegations of Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) as a strategy to annihilate their families.
Instead of doing this physically, these abusers are using family court to inflict the damage. The men who claim to be “alienated” often will repeatedly call in false abuse reports on the mother, which is ignored in court proceedings and by the PAS-accusing evaluator.
These same men will attempt to “coach” the child to say bad things and make false allegations against the mother. When the child reports the father for his abuse (including parental alienation tactics), the father falsely claims alienation by the mother. It is a reign of terror, with the child as the ultimate victim.
There are some of the frequently elements of the abuse/false alienation scam. These behaviors often start during the relationship–they’re not something that occurs as a result of divorce, but instead are often the reason for the divorce. They are:
Abuse frequently either begins or escalates during pregnancy.
Abuse can be physical and/or sexual.
Threatens to take the children if the victim mom leaves.
Threatens the life of the mom and/or children.
Extremely emotionally abusive and controlling.
Coercive control is constant.
Stalking.
Harassment by any means possible, phone, email or any other means of communication. Communications are with the intent to inflict emotional distress.
False accusations of infidelity.
Interferes with wife/mom’s work.
Keeps mom and kids from having friendships with other people, and relationships with her own family, wants to only be with his relatives and friends.
Financial abuse (may incur bills and refuse to pay any, forces mom/wife to take on debt to keep family afloat while simultaneously undermining work of wife/mom).
Wife/mom will try to get help for husband/dad, and NOT immediately leave. Wife/mom will refuse to prosecute, only to later have this be extremely detrimental.
CPS involvement due to domestic violence and child abuse reports called in by people other than the mom. Mom will be terrorized with every report because she is at risk of losing kids to CPS.
Abuse against child that child discloses to mom while still married or in relationship. Mom will choose to work with dad on this personally.
Mom gets threatened by CPS with failure to protect while married or in relationship.
Visitation may be stopped for valid reasons.
Child is a pawn, the ways and means of continuing the abuse on the mother while inflicting great harm on the child.
Child will often be abused in front of mother intentionally during exchanges.
Child exchanges are just another opportunity to inflict harm on mom and child in any way possible. Calling all day, changing times, changing locations, repeatedly and obnoxiously.
Father refusing to return child from visitation.
Father will often have wealthy parents (and usually highly abusive and controlling father).
Father’s parents will also engage in the terrorizing of mom and kids, and will also make threats and file false reports. Father’s parents function like tag team of bullies.
Father will have visitation, then falsely claim that he was denied visitation. (Valid reasons for schedule changes are claimed to be “alienation.”)
Father will receive phone calls, and school correspondence, then falsely claim that the calls were not long enough or meaningful enough, etc and that he did not receive ENOUGH information from school or may falsely claim that he received nothing when opposite is true.
Mother will comply with every order in great detail, while father disobeys, but father will file for false contempt claim in order to commit custody exchange fraud.
Father only needs to lie to psychologist, who then does nothing to corroborate any information, and psychologist will come to court and falsely accuse parental alienation without any evidence.
Courts will listen to paid expert and vilify the protective parent to the delight of the abuser.
Father is expert at “crazy-making” This behavior distorts reality and destroys the possibility of honest communication. This is a very effective device to increase confusion and insecurity in the victim. It also makes the victim mom have to continuously defend in court.
In these cases, of course the child is fearful of the father. The children will be telling the truth, and the psychotic father is claiming they are lying. He forces the children to undergo evaluations and reunification therapy in efforts to have these psychologists “brainwash” the children into believing the father’s alternate version of realty.
The children are tortured by unethical lawyers and psychologists profiteering off the case under the direction of the abuser dad, who is usually a very skillful and charming liar. The litigation will go on endlessly, as the protective parent desperately tries to shield the child.
This tactic of the true abuser using false allegations of alienation is an extreme form of emotional battering, and is a way of continuing to inflict abuse. The child will resent the true abuser even more, because of the hell they are being put through in order to exact revenge on the mom. False allegation of this fictitious syndrome–Parental Alienation Syndrome–is a fraud and needs to be exposed.
There are false allegations of fictitious syndromes going on all over the country and around the world. Horrifically abusive men, armed with lots of money, use false allegations of Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) as a strategy to annihilate their families.
Instead of doing this physically, these abusers are using family court to inflict the damage. The men who claim to be “alienated” often will repeatedly call in false abuse reports on the mother, which is ignored in court proceedings and by the PAS-accusing evaluator.
These same men will attempt to “coach” the child to say bad things and make false allegations against the mother. When the child reports the father for his abuse (including parental alienation tactics), the father falsely claims alienation by the mother. It is a reign of terror, with the child as the ultimate victim.
There are some of the frequently elements of the abuse/false alienation scam. These behaviors often start during the relationship–they’re not something that occurs as a result of divorce, but instead are often the reason for the divorce. They are:
Abuse frequently either begins or escalates during pregnancy.
Abuse can be physical and/or sexual.
Threatens to take the children if the victim mom leaves.
Threatens the life of the mom and/or children.
Extremely emotionally abusive and controlling.
Coercive control is constant.
Stalking.
Harassment by any means possible, phone, email or any other means of communication. Communications are with the intent to inflict emotional distress.
False accusations of infidelity.
Interferes with wife/mom’s work.
Keeps mom and kids from having friendships with other people, and relationships with her own family, wants to only be with his relatives and friends.
Financial abuse (may incur bills and refuse to pay any, forces mom/wife to take on debt to keep family afloat while simultaneously undermining work of wife/mom).
Wife/mom will try to get help for husband/dad, and NOT immediately leave. Wife/mom will refuse to prosecute, only to later have this be extremely detrimental.
CPS involvement due to domestic violence and child abuse reports called in by people other than the mom. Mom will be terrorized with every report because she is at risk of losing kids to CPS.
Abuse against child that child discloses to mom while still married or in relationship. Mom will choose to work with dad on this personally.
Mom gets threatened by CPS with failure to protect while married or in relationship.
Visitation may be stopped for valid reasons.
Child is a pawn, the ways and means of continuing the abuse on the mother while inflicting great harm on the child.
Child will often be abused in front of mother intentionally during exchanges.
Child exchanges are just another opportunity to inflict harm on mom and child in any way possible. Calling all day, changing times, changing locations, repeatedly and obnoxiously.
Father refusing to return child from visitation.
Father will often have wealthy parents (and usually highly abusive and controlling father).
Father’s parents will also engage in the terrorizing of mom and kids, and will also make threats and file false reports. Father’s parents function like tag team of bullies.
Father will have visitation, then falsely claim that he was denied visitation. (Valid reasons for schedule changes are claimed to be “alienation.”)
Father will receive phone calls, and school correspondence, then falsely claim that the calls were not long enough or meaningful enough, etc and that he did not receive ENOUGH information from school or may falsely claim that he received nothing when opposite is true.
Mother will comply with every order in great detail, while father disobeys, but father will file for false contempt claim in order to commit custody exchange fraud.
Father only needs to lie to psychologist, who then does nothing to corroborate any information, and psychologist will come to court and falsely accuse parental alienation without any evidence.
Courts will listen to paid expert and vilify the protective parent to the delight of the abuser.
Father is expert at “crazy-making” This behavior distorts reality and destroys the possibility of honest communication. This is a very effective device to increase confusion and insecurity in the victim. It also makes the victim mom have to continuously defend in court.
In these cases, of course the child is fearful of the father. The children will be telling the truth, and the psychotic father is claiming they are lying. He forces the children to undergo evaluations and reunification therapy in efforts to have these psychologists “brainwash” the children into believing the father’s alternate version of realty.
The children are tortured by unethical lawyers and psychologists profiteering off the case under the direction of the abuser dad, who is usually a very skillful and charming liar. The litigation will go on endlessly, as the protective parent desperately tries to shield the child.
This tactic of the true abuser using false allegations of alienation is an extreme form of emotional battering, and is a way of continuing to inflict abuse. The child will resent the true abuser even more, because of the hell they are being put through in order to exact revenge on the mom. False allegation of this fictitious syndrome–Parental Alienation Syndrome–is a fraud and needs to be exposed.
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How “Parental Alienation Syndrome” is Used Against Mothers And Children Who Allege Child Sexual Abuse by Trish Wilson
PAS is set up in such a way that regardless of what the child or mother may do or say, all behavior and statements will not be believed. Either the children and mother are delusional or they are lying. Karen stated that the court appointed evaluator for the children believed that the children’s therapists — those not appoint ed by the court — were “abusing them by believing them,” which fits in beautifully with treatment for PAS. http://www.feminista.com/archives/v1n2/wilson.html
The Truth About Parental Alienation Syndrome And The American Psychological Association compiled by Trish WilsonWhen children reject their abusive fathers, it is common for the batterer and others to blame the mother for alienating the children. They often do not understand the legitimate fears of the child. http://members.aol.com/asherah/meier1.html
Parental Alienation Syndrome: A Paradigm for Child Abuse in Australian Family Law by Dr. Elspeth McInnes I want to begin by drawing attention to the public acknowledgement at the highest levels of Family Law reform and administration in Australia of a continuing systemic failure to protect children from serious abuse. Both the Family Law Council (2002) report titled ‘Family Law and Child Protection’ and the Family Court’s Magellan Project (Brown et al. 1999, 2001) have recognised that children who are subject to serious abuse are not protected from continuing abuse in the current Family Court system. Interim orders are made without reference to histories of domestic violence and allegations of abuse, which are treated as untested and therefore unreliable (Altobelli 2001). The trivialisation, disbelief and dismissal of child abuse allegations is underpinned by a presumptive paradigm that allegations of child abuse in divorce proceedings are the product of vengeful and vindictive mothers. http://www.unisa.edu.au/hawkeinstitute/hpw/documents/mcinnes-parental.doc
Expert Dr. Robert Geffner: Courts Under the Thrall of Dangerous “Parental Alienation Syndrome” Myth Award Custody to Violent, Abusive ParentsChild abuse experts Dr. Robert Geffner warns that “Parental Alienation Syndrome” (PAS) is junk science – a psychiatric “disorder” that isn’t recognized by any mental health or medical association, isn’t supported by research, and hasn’t even been published in established peer-reviewed professional journals. But PAS has been used by the courts to award sole custody of hundreds of children to the parents accused of sexually or physically abusing them.Worse is a process that turns justice on its head by demonizing the parent who is trying to protect their child and has made statements about them being abused. “Many professionals connected with the courts are operating under the influence of and acting on a dangerous myth. PAS is fictitious, but the life-long damage it has inflicted on countless children is only too real,” Geffner says. Both children who are exposed to intimate partner violence and those who are physically or sexually abused often are affected throughout their life span if the abuse is not recognized and treated. Many adults experience symptoms ranging from anxiety, sleeplessness, and panic attacks to a recurrent inability to trust other adults and form stable relationships but don’t connect those problems to their childhood history of abuse. http://www.alliant.edu/wps/wcm/connect/website/News+and+Events/News+Center/News+Releases/June+2006+-+Expert+Dr.+Robert+Geffner:+Courts+under+thrall+of+dangerous+%22Parental+Alienation+Syndrome%22+Myth+Award+Custody+to+Violent,+Abusive+Parents
Parental Alienation Syndrome: When is ‘Parental Alienation Syndrome’ a False Allegation?
There is no protection, under the PAS theory for children who have actually sufferred physical, sexual or emotional abuse, due to such abuse being virtually impossible to ‘prove’, due to the childs age and general legal disbelief of children’s disclosures…We are aware of situations where protective fathers have been denied contact for many convoluted and unjust reasons, and where residential fathers have systematically alienated children from the non residential mother. However,parental alientation SYNDROME has not been an issue in those situations. http://www.projo.com/opinion/contributors/content/projo_20060627_ctgrant.184a360.html
Fighting Over the Kids: Battered spouses take aim at a controversial custody strategy.
…according to one 2004 survey in Massachusetts by Harvard’s Jay Silverman, 54 percent of custody cases involving documented spousal abuse were decided in favor of the alleged batterers. Parental alienation was used as an argument in nearly every case.
This year the National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges denounced the theory as “junk science,” and at least four states have passed legislation to curtail its use in custody cases involving allegations of domestic violence. “It’s really been a cancer in the family courts,” says Richard Ducote, an attorney in Pittsburgh who has represented abuse victims in custody cases for 22 years.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/14870310/site/newsweek/
The Truth About Parental Alienation
This past year (2006) the American Bar Association’s Children’s Legal Rights Journal published an article that undertook a comprehensive analysis of the scientific, legal and policy issues involved in the evidentiary admissibility of Parental Alienation Syndrome, and found that there was no support for its use. Also this past year, the National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges published a judges bench book that also found no scientific or legal basis for admission of parental alienation. Further, it cautioned:And the 1996 Report of the American Psychological Association Presidential“PAS’s twenty-year run in American courts is an embarrassing chapter in the history of evidentiary law. It reflects the wholesale failure of legal professionals entrusted with evidentiary gatekeeping intended to guard legal processes from the taint of pseudo-science…. As a matter of science, law, and policy PAS should remain inadmissible in American courts.” http://harfordmedlegal.typepad.com/forensics_talk/2007/07/the-truth-about.html
Rev. Anne Grant: The discredited ‘Parental Alienation Syndrome’
Abusers with money or other forms of influence, skilled at terrorizing their families, easily gain the upper hand. Their children, suffering nightmares and stomach ailments, refuse to visit them. The abusive parent charges the protective parent with “brainwashing” the children, and wins sole custody…The so-called Parental Alienation Syndrome, touted by many in the Rhode Island Family Court, has been discredited by the American Psychological Association and, recently, by both the National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges and the Children’s Legal Rights Journal. For more than a decade, I have witnessed the devastating effects of this strategy in Rhode Island courtrooms and families.Abusers often pride themselves on a no-nonsense parenting style that may appeal to judges. They typically show little concern for their children. Some pursue the children to torment their ex-partner or to avoid paying child support. Some force the children to deliver intelligence on the ex-partner, for protracted litigation against the protective parent. Threatened by a brutal, angry, demanding parent, the children frequently suffer post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and worse.
http://www.projo.com/opinion/contributors/content/projo_20060627_ctgrant.184a360.html
Family court ‘is an ex’s revenge’: BBC News (January 18, 2005).
They say they law isn’t biased and in the way the law is worded it isn’t, but the way it is operated it is. Bias really does exist.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/4184411.stm
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Posted by evanlee21 under Parental Alienation Syndrome Tags: Court, custody, domestic abuse, Parental Alienation Syndrome
How “Parental Alienation Syndrome” is Used Against Mothers And Children Who Allege Child Sexual Abuse by Trish Wilson
PAS is set up in such a way that regardless of what the child or mother may do or say, all behavior and statements will not be believed. Either the children and mother are delusional or they are lying. Karen stated that the court appointed evaluator for the children believed that the children’s therapists — those not appoint ed by the court — were “abusing them by believing them,” which fits in beautifully with treatment for PAS. http://www.feminista.com/archives/v1n2/wilson.html
The Truth About Parental Alienation Syndrome And The American Psychological Association compiled by Trish WilsonWhen children reject their abusive fathers, it is common for the batterer and others to blame the mother for alienating the children. They often do not understand the legitimate fears of the child. http://members.aol.com/asherah/meier1.html
Parental Alienation Syndrome: A Paradigm for Child Abuse in Australian Family Law by Dr. Elspeth McInnes I want to begin by drawing attention to the public acknowledgement at the highest levels of Family Law reform and administration in Australia of a continuing systemic failure to protect children from serious abuse. Both the Family Law Council (2002) report titled ‘Family Law and Child Protection’ and the Family Court’s Magellan Project (Brown et al. 1999, 2001) have recognised that children who are subject to serious abuse are not protected from continuing abuse in the current Family Court system. Interim orders are made without reference to histories of domestic violence and allegations of abuse, which are treated as untested and therefore unreliable (Altobelli 2001). The trivialisation, disbelief and dismissal of child abuse allegations is underpinned by a presumptive paradigm that allegations of child abuse in divorce proceedings are the product of vengeful and vindictive mothers. http://www.unisa.edu.au/hawkeinstitute/hpw/documents/mcinnes-parental.doc
Expert Dr. Robert Geffner: Courts Under the Thrall of Dangerous “Parental Alienation Syndrome” Myth Award Custody to Violent, Abusive ParentsChild abuse experts Dr. Robert Geffner warns that “Parental Alienation Syndrome” (PAS) is junk science – a psychiatric “disorder” that isn’t recognized by any mental health or medical association, isn’t supported by research, and hasn’t even been published in established peer-reviewed professional journals. But PAS has been used by the courts to award sole custody of hundreds of children to the parents accused of sexually or physically abusing them.Worse is a process that turns justice on its head by demonizing the parent who is trying to protect their child and has made statements about them being abused. “Many professionals connected with the courts are operating under the influence of and acting on a dangerous myth. PAS is fictitious, but the life-long damage it has inflicted on countless children is only too real,” Geffner says. Both children who are exposed to intimate partner violence and those who are physically or sexually abused often are affected throughout their life span if the abuse is not recognized and treated. Many adults experience symptoms ranging from anxiety, sleeplessness, and panic attacks to a recurrent inability to trust other adults and form stable relationships but don’t connect those problems to their childhood history of abuse. http://www.alliant.edu/wps/wcm/connect/website/News+and+Events/News+Center/News+Releases/June+2006+-+Expert+Dr.+Robert+Geffner:+Courts+under+thrall+of+dangerous+%22Parental+Alienation+Syndrome%22+Myth+Award+Custody+to+Violent,+Abusive+Parents
Parental Alienation Syndrome: When is ‘Parental Alienation Syndrome’ a False Allegation?
There is no protection, under the PAS theory for children who have actually sufferred physical, sexual or emotional abuse, due to such abuse being virtually impossible to ‘prove’, due to the childs age and general legal disbelief of children’s disclosures…We are aware of situations where protective fathers have been denied contact for many convoluted and unjust reasons, and where residential fathers have systematically alienated children from the non residential mother. However,parental alientation SYNDROME has not been an issue in those situations. http://www.projo.com/opinion/contributors/content/projo_20060627_ctgrant.184a360.html
Fighting Over the Kids: Battered spouses take aim at a controversial custody strategy.
…according to one 2004 survey in Massachusetts by Harvard’s Jay Silverman, 54 percent of custody cases involving documented spousal abuse were decided in favor of the alleged batterers. Parental alienation was used as an argument in nearly every case.
This year the National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges denounced the theory as “junk science,” and at least four states have passed legislation to curtail its use in custody cases involving allegations of domestic violence. “It’s really been a cancer in the family courts,” says Richard Ducote, an attorney in Pittsburgh who has represented abuse victims in custody cases for 22 years.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/14870310/site/newsweek/
The Truth About Parental Alienation
This past year (2006) the American Bar Association’s Children’s Legal Rights Journal published an article that undertook a comprehensive analysis of the scientific, legal and policy issues involved in the evidentiary admissibility of Parental Alienation Syndrome, and found that there was no support for its use. Also this past year, the National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges published a judges bench book that also found no scientific or legal basis for admission of parental alienation. Further, it cautioned:And the 1996 Report of the American Psychological Association Presidential“PAS’s twenty-year run in American courts is an embarrassing chapter in the history of evidentiary law. It reflects the wholesale failure of legal professionals entrusted with evidentiary gatekeeping intended to guard legal processes from the taint of pseudo-science…. As a matter of science, law, and policy PAS should remain inadmissible in American courts.” http://harfordmedlegal.typepad.com/forensics_talk/2007/07/the-truth-about.html
Rev. Anne Grant: The discredited ‘Parental Alienation Syndrome’
Abusers with money or other forms of influence, skilled at terrorizing their families, easily gain the upper hand. Their children, suffering nightmares and stomach ailments, refuse to visit them. The abusive parent charges the protective parent with “brainwashing” the children, and wins sole custody…The so-called Parental Alienation Syndrome, touted by many in the Rhode Island Family Court, has been discredited by the American Psychological Association and, recently, by both the National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges and the Children’s Legal Rights Journal. For more than a decade, I have witnessed the devastating effects of this strategy in Rhode Island courtrooms and families.Abusers often pride themselves on a no-nonsense parenting style that may appeal to judges. They typically show little concern for their children. Some pursue the children to torment their ex-partner or to avoid paying child support. Some force the children to deliver intelligence on the ex-partner, for protracted litigation against the protective parent. Threatened by a brutal, angry, demanding parent, the children frequently suffer post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and worse.
http://www.projo.com/opinion/contributors/content/projo_20060627_ctgrant.184a360.html
Family court ‘is an ex’s revenge’: BBC News (January 18, 2005).
They say they law isn’t biased and in the way the law is worded it isn’t, but the way it is operated it is. Bias really does exist.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/4184411.stm
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